I'm lonely all the time. I have a great family, a boyfried, but i'm lonely. I don't have alot of other friends and I've never been able to fit into a group. I went to a great party last night but it was the first one in 6 week, and there was a 6 week gap before the last one...
Mom and my boyfriend are both mad at me for complaining about being lonely. My boyfriend said I went to a party and should feel all better now. I fit in at the party but no one there will remember me tomorrow. Am I just picky? Do they not understand?
All I do most days is wander around the university alone looking for people. All I really want is a chance to get out and hang out with people more often.
I even like myself, i'm smart and pretty, just incredibly lonely.
2007-02-03 18:11:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
probably need people with common interest. maybe even find interesting people, maybe your bf is boring.
2007-02-03 18:16:03 · answer #1 · answered by dwill604 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Feeling lonely and being alone are two separate things; Usually people who are more intellectual tend to be more selective and create more meaningful and lasting relationships. Perhaps you are paying the price of the eagle (Flying higher is a lonely flight).
If you feel the need to socialize, try making a list of the -real- friends in your circle and get a hold of them, you'll be surprised that you are not alone.
2007-02-03 18:19:40 · answer #2 · answered by Brian K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're in college, you need to join some clubs, and you'll meet a lot of people in clubs. If you live in the dorms, you'll meet plenty of other girls that way. Once you meet a few people, you'll naturally start meeting people through their friends and then the freinds of those people, and before you know it, you'll have lots of friends.
In your classes, ask other girls how to do homework problems (even if you already know), and then ask them if you can study with them. If you know girls that live in the dorms, ESPECIALLY ask if you can study with them (dorm kids have A LOT of friends, and you'll meet a lot of people that way).
Good luck! If you're not in college, find groups and clubs in the community that you can join. You'll meet people that way. If you're pretty, as you say, then go to local hangouts or bars and guys will talk to you. See if you can get an invite to a party, but then don't drink too much and use it as an opportunity to meet friends; not guys.
JOIN A SORRORITY AT SCHOOL WILL BE THE BEST WAY TO MEET LOTS OF GIRLS and guys (friends) !!!!
2007-02-03 18:20:20 · answer #3 · answered by College Guy2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are lots of people out there feeling the same way. i am going through that too, thats why I'm usually on here, because I have nothing better to do. My friends are mad at me and my family is always out dong something. maybe you are depressed about things that are happening in life, thats why I feel lonley.
2007-02-03 18:21:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you depend upon others to keep you happy? What interesting hobbies do you have? Are you good in sports, music, or are you just a terrific candidate for a television show like: JEOPARDY?
It's just a guess, but perhaps you're looking for something (or someone) who can provide a little more insight to your life? If you feel you'd like to talk sometime...feel free to email me. My name is Gary and you can reach me at: argytunes@yahoo.com
2007-02-03 18:17:24 · answer #5 · answered by argytunes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thre are times when i feel like that ..but you're lucky because you have a boy friend..umm..sometimes i prefer being alone that minggling with others but most of the time i hate being alone..how about try talking to people that feel lonely like you do..who knows maybe you'll find your best friend..
2007-02-03 19:03:29 · answer #6 · answered by wingedfire83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u need to be more friendly with everyone and try to interact more & more. if u still feel lonely just keep your self busy with some work or else learn some arts like painting, music, dance etc.
2007-02-03 18:46:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think YOUR lonley. My fiance works out of town for up to 6 weeks at a time, im 29 weeks pregnant, i can't go to party's. Im stuck in a appartment all the time, by myself!!!
Don't compain about being lonley.
2007-02-03 18:28:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like you need to venture out and experience new things. You will only truly understand and live with yourself forever so make sure you you end up living the way you want to!
2007-02-03 18:15:06 · answer #9 · answered by salsadancingtiffany 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are depressed? I don't really know. Try to express yourself through song or a poem. That works for me.
2007-02-03 18:15:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am feeling lonely too and even without a girlfriend....It seems that we have to cope with it......Anyway, I can be one of your friends if you want
2007-02-05 13:39:10 · answer #11 · answered by CG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋