We have been best friends for 3 years now and later that will play as a big factor. I started liking him as i got to know him more and eventually i told him about these feelings. Unfortunatly, he turned me down telling me he only saw me as his best friend for life. This shocked me because he constantly flirted with me and i thought for sure he liked me. It took me a little over a year to truly get over him because i loved him and i knew it because he caused me so much heart ache...that i had never felt before. I can honestly say i am finally over him now but at times i find myself getting a little jealous when he talks about over females. i think thats only natural, he was my first love. BUT HE STILL FLIRTS WITH ME LIKE CRAZY! we were talking tonight and he said he thinks me and him are going to be one of those bestfriends who "hook up" later in life. i cant accept that he only wants to be my friend. Am i right about these feelings or should i call it quits and move on completely?
2007-02-03 17:52:39 · 2 answers · asked by Curiosity Kills 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk to him and ask him
2007-02-03 17:55:49 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can not handle being just a friend to him then maybe you should distance yourself. He may realize that he does not like the distance. He may flirt with you because he is comfortable with you and probably flirts with many girls. He seems like he has made it clear you are friends. Did you have a relationship before you were friends? Have you had any relationships with any others or have you just been waiting for him. If you have been waiting for him he could be acting this way knowing he can becasue he will wait for him. Maybe you should have a friend you are getting interest in and start talking about it to him and see how he responds. If he likes you and wants to be with you he will let you know by stopping you from seeing the other.
2007-02-04 02:03:45 · answer #2 · answered by Shelly D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋