I am 14 years old and when I came out to my mom...she told me that not many women would date a bisexual male like myself and that I should be prepared for that later in life.
So, I am curious to know how many of you women out there would/would not date a bisexual male.
THANKS TO ALL!
2007-02-03 17:35:08 · 14 answers · asked by ... 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I really wanted this question to be for straight women but go ahead...hahaha.
2007-02-03 17:45:14 · update #1
My husband is bisexual. :-) So I not only dated a bisexual man, I married him!
2007-02-03 18:04:29 · answer #1 · answered by prairiecrow 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion me? No, because i'm no longer attracted to guy on guy sexual encounters, nor may I be at liberty with my better 1/2 "dishonest" on me with a guy. Im chuffed to have acquaintances that are gay, and that i take care of them as the different chum. no matter if that be dinner, beverages, some thing like that. If it occurs that we percentage an similar interest, tremendous, although that isn't any different than that of a instantly guy. Edit - From what I have realized, a sexual habit is a few thing that someone biologically needs with a view to achive sexual delight. If someone is aroused through both sexes, certain they're frequently monogomus, although the urge is continually there, and that could difficulty me in a courting, as i'd have not person-friendly time information, or respecting that urge.
2016-11-25 00:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many bisexual men marry and have happy lives with their wives. And bisexual men do date women.
Most bisexual men do not tell their lady friends or dates they are bisexual. In fact, most bisexual men don't tell their closest male friends that they are bisexual. (And many wives today would be shocked to find out that their husbands are, in fact, attracted to men as well as women.)
Having said that, I will tell you flat out that most (not all) women who somehow realize their men are bisexual, pull back and take a look at the relationship -- and they will do that more so before a marriage than after a marriage.
2007-02-03 18:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend is dating me and knows that I'm bisexual. Not only that, she's also very aware that I more consistently attracted to other men versus other women - though that might also be attributed to the fact that she is about as pleasing as I could imagine a woman being and so don't take as much interest in women as I do men.
It might intimidate some women, I imagine, but it also turns some women on. Some women like men who are experimental and adventurous, and I'd say that's about as adventurous and open-minded as one can get.
2007-02-03 19:43:47 · answer #4 · answered by Dorsiatic 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm a bisexual woman. I have never dated a bisexual male but if I were single then yes I would if I liked him. As long as while we were together he was faithful to me. I don't think I could handle shareing him with another man but if he was with me and not fooling around on the side then I don't see why not.
2007-02-03 17:49:34 · answer #5 · answered by just jenn 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm a bisexual woman, and I am absolutely interested in bisexual men. In fact, I think they rank higher on my 'want to date' list than any other person, because I find the idea of bisexual men arousing, plus I feel bisexuals in general are often very open-minded, compassionate, intelligent people. I want someone who understands me as a bisexual, too (I find that many bisexuals seem to share the same feelings of dating one another for this very reason).
I have no interest in polyamory, and I want my bisexual man to be faithful to me and I to him, so I guess I have some conditions to dating bisexual men, but I don't feel they're unreasonable- I'm just more devoted to monogamy.
I don't know if your mom told you this in order to scare you, but let me set you straight: yes, a lot of women are put off by the idea of bisexual men. There are so many stereotypes and myths and misrepresentations out there that paint bisexual men as either greedy, indecisive, 'in a phase', really gay but in denial, promiscuous, sex-crazed, unfaithful, disease-ridden . . . the list goes on. Women who learn that their boyfriends/husbands are bisexual tend to have major fears that he will leave them for a man, that he's really gay, that he wants to have a threesome or date men and women both at the same time, that he's given them an STD, that he will or has been cheating, etc..
At the same time, there are many wonderful women out there who, after adjusting to the fact, are completely supportive of their bisexual men or don't even see it as a problem- or, like me, see it as a plus. Like I said, I tend to find that these women are bisexual or open-minded themselves, but there are many straight women out there who can handle bisexual guys.
I hope that helps you and good luck!
2007-02-03 20:11:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
According to society:
If you are a guy, you are considered gay.
If you are a woman, you are still considered straight.
What can I say? We live in a shitty world. And you should already know who's responible for the state that the world is in: the same ones that decided that you should be gay for the rest of your life and only sleep with men, the same ones that decided to label you as a "phag" already.
It's less likely that women are going to be flocking towards you. They have the notion in thier heads thaty you're gay already. Some of these women might see you as less of a man like turds see you. Sorry, they already have you pegged as a "phag", so they want be taking you too seriously. I am just only speaking the truth here.
P.S. If it makes you feel better:
Don't worry. Straight dudes are "F.A.G.s", too.
Reinvent manhood and masculinity to be more appealing to women! Women are attracted to power, and they want someone to take control. Take control of the situation! Confidence is definitely key. Stand up to those that try to throw sh** your way, and DON'T BACK DOWN!
2007-02-03 17:56:53 · answer #7 · answered by fieldscharlie 1 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Me because I HAVE dated a bisexual male, and I am a bisexual female myself.
2007-02-03 17:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'm straight and yes I would (if I like u), U still like girls. A couple of my friends dated/date bi men. I guess it depends on the women.
2007-02-03 17:50:10 · answer #9 · answered by : ) 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, technically I am more of a lesbian than a bisexual woman... my fiance is bisexual, ftm transgender...
What you learn as time goes on is that what you call yourself really doesn't matter. You'll find someone who loves you for you.
2007-02-04 01:18:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋