2007-02-03 16:57:19 · 34 answers · asked by Mickey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes!! At least have some balls to stand up and tell her the truth. She deserves to hear it from you.
2007-02-03 17:01:06 · answer #1 · answered by Robyn K 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah...do you wanna have a guilty conscience the rest of your life?
Would you rather have her find out so many years down the road or just tell her the truth now...I'd be more pissed if I found out a long ways down the road.
Be a man, own up to your mistake and do the right thing! And giving everyone a thumbs down is so immature, sorry we didn't say what you wanted to hear! Cheater cheater cheater!
2007-02-03 17:21:37 · answer #2 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she truly loves you she'll probably freak. If she is a cheater also it may cause her and you relief. Cheating often comes with youth. or Ignorance. Maybe you'll become swingers? Maybe it'll cause a divorce. either way it'll continue to mess with your head. EVEN IF you stop cheating you'll always have it in the back of your mind eating at you. The sooner you confess the quicker you can go on with life. If you don't your life is just on mental hold effecting other decisions in your life. Get it over with. You made a mistake confess to it. Hope for the best. Then accept the consequences like a man.
2007-02-03 17:08:48 · answer #3 · answered by Grand Eminence 1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow talk about a lack of respect for your wife. First you cheat on her and instead of coming clean to her you ask a bunch of strangers if you should even tell her???? Yes tell her and then do her a favour and walk out the door. She deserves better then you. As for the person that said don't tell her if you never plan on doing it again if this so called man is in here asking strangers IF he should tell his wife then he will never change he cleary does not respect nor care for her like he should she is MUCH better off without him.
2007-02-03 17:27:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well now lets think about this question....should you tell your wife? Hell yes! She should know what a jerk she is married to and then be able to make her own decision about if she would want to stay. It is just wrong to cheat...if you are interested in someone else you should end one relationship before starting another. It not fair to anyone involved.
2007-02-03 17:02:19 · answer #5 · answered by Sati 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you hate her? Cuz if you do that would be the ultimate revenge. How about you leave her and never tell her so she can go on having a happy life. News like that would devestate her. I'm sick of people thinking that sharing their guilt will fix their own internal conflicts.
2007-02-03 18:06:08 · answer #6 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should tell your wife that you cheated. If the roles were switched I know you would want to know. Be honest with her...do it before she finds out elsewhere.
2007-02-03 19:39:58 · answer #7 · answered by ♪♫♫♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is better to tell your spouse that you have cheated and do not be afraid to ask or even beg for a second chance. It is better bacause getting caught in the act will be much worse.
2007-02-03 17:55:04 · answer #8 · answered by Jeralyn B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
resolve to yourserlf first that you will not cheat anymore, then you tell your wife you WERE a cheater and that you are sorry and tell her not to do it again. and you better not do it again so that the trust issue will not be totally broken to pieces.
2007-02-03 17:05:18 · answer #9 · answered by blue violet 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes
2007-02-03 17:01:34 · answer #10 · answered by Dr No 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No don't tell her your a cheater jeeze just do what you have to do and be good to her.
2007-02-03 17:45:28 · answer #11 · answered by sammy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋