Just wonderin' does it really hurt 4 a women when havin' sex da' 1st time Yes or No Plz Explain...........????????????
2007-02-03 16:53:00 · 30 answers · asked by ~* Sexy Zoe Mama *~ 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
im not a woman but i think yes cuz they whine.......
2007-02-03 16:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by Chaos_dude 2 · 1⤊ 14⤋
It only hurts for some people. It depends on what you're used to doing. Some girls masturbate or get fingered so when it comes time for their first experience it does not hurt. It might feel a bit uncomfortable but it's not really pain. If you haven't done anything at all then yes it will hurt a bit but then you should be able. You can always try stretching out the hymen by applying pressure to it weeks before you have sex to make it easier though.
2007-02-04 02:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by angel h 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I can only speak from my personal experience, But sex for the first time was kinda painful, and very akward. I mean yes, it was very discomforting at first, then gradually a lil more comfortable. Myself would like to tell you that sex is not going to be what you dream it to be until you find someone whom you love and can share that intimatcy between the 2 of ya. Sex can be wonderful when it is with the right person, But don't get your hopes up cause more than likely the first time is gonna be a disappointment to you. And keep in mind that childbirth MOST DEFINATLY HURTS!!!!!!
2007-02-10 02:30:19 · answer #3 · answered by Kimmy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its can hurt. Just be ready for something uncomfortable and possibly messy. Pain is a personal thing, so how you experience hurt may not bother someone else. It is less uncomfortable than a PAP smear..
Don't fool yourself, its not all that romantic so going in thinking that its gonna be some really good thing for you is going to mess you up..Guys get way more out of it.
Whatever you do, do it for yourself and when you are ready. Don't be rushed into something you don't want, need or think is right for youself. Once guys get what they want, you are no longer as special as you were five minutes before.
Inow your options and take measures to be prepared.
If you do it, be safe. .
2007-02-04 01:06:07 · answer #4 · answered by Mangomum 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well the first time I did it it hurt a little but not that bad. Everyone is different thow and it also depends a lot on how large the man is(size of his penis). Just ask him before hand to be very slow and gentle with you it takes you'r body time to get use to that sortta thing.
2007-02-04 01:05:22 · answer #5 · answered by Amy D 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
yes it does hurt. and you will bleed too. you are thinking about it? better see a health professional and get some answers before you do more than think. btw, having babies hurts too when they come out of that area; and that's not to mention the 9 months of weight gain, hemorrhoids, swollen legs and feet, uncomfortableness trying to sleep, oh yeah and you can get diabetes and high blood pressure and lots of things can go wrong......don't do it.....wait til u r an adult at least....
2007-02-04 01:28:54 · answer #6 · answered by momme malis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was great for me, but I was wanting it and ready for it
at the time, and you need to be to.
Sex can hurt women and men when they first start out, its
something new and our bodys have to adjust, it is A
wonderful thing that one day everyone will have.
2007-02-04 14:57:53 · answer #7 · answered by koko 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the woman, if you tried using a dildo or something first, it wont hurt as much, but if your going to have sex without ever doing ANYTHING before, it will hurt.
2007-02-04 01:47:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it does. The first time the hymen is broken and it is painful, if not very uncomfortable. Personally, it took about about ten times before it didn't hurt for me.
2007-02-04 00:58:58 · answer #9 · answered by risa_rific 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you haven't busted your hyman before your first sexual intercourse encounter it will hurt for a while. It also depends if you are taking it up the back passage or your front.
2007-02-11 21:54:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish i knew how it felt,mines was taken away at a very early age in life by a pervert,i just don,t remember the feeling just the jerk.
2007-02-08 12:06:27 · answer #11 · answered by Baby Doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋