would you date a liar? I am seeing this girl and Its difficult for her to say the truth at any given occasion. and in a funny way , it has turned me into some kind of detective. I resent the fact that i have to dig 3 miles into the ground to get the truth instead of getting it straight from her. but that seems the only choice I have. So to put it simply. I don't trust her. That brings me to the second question; would you date somebody you don't trust? OK nobody is perfect. but is not-telling-the-truth one of the imperfections we have to put up with?
2007-02-03 16:12:48 · 20 answers · asked by tof982003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No way, if someone lies, they obviously have no respect for you. Usually the truth isn't as bas as the hurtful lies. There are plenty of things that are forgiveable in a relationship... but it seems that the laws of life are just.. don't put up with a liar. I'm sorry honey but your girl (or any lier) won't ever change, and your entire relationship will be based on those lies. And that's totally not worth it, at least to me.
2007-02-03 16:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by Carly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the question is are you going to keep dating a liar? Don't sell yourself short. What kind of life do you want for yourself? In my experience I came to find out that TRUST and RESPECT are the main ingredients to a healthy relationship. Communication is also an important part. If you don't have trust then how can you have respect? And if you can't talk truthfully then what do you have? I will tell you, It's a person(you) who has to check their girlfriends every move and walking around with resentments. Is that what you want out of life? Think about it. Good Luck
2007-02-03 16:31:52 · answer #2 · answered by kellyfl59 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The man that I was married to was a pathological liar. He lied about anything and everything.
No, I would never date a liar again. You make think it's not a big deal,but really it is. Pathological liars do not know the difference between the truth and a lie.
I could never again date someone that I could not trust. No one should even consider it.
2007-02-03 21:41:24 · answer #3 · answered by Karen H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope i would not... If i was dating him and found out he was a liar i would dump him.... If he lies you could never trust or even know when he was telling the truth or not. It is not worth it. Dont stay with her if you cant trust her and let her go and move on with your life. You will be better off for it!
2007-02-03 16:32:52 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I did and ended up marrying him. I felt naive to believe him but just loved him too much. If you ended up marrying her, you WILL go through hell and back.
But if she truly loves u (in the long run/starts respecting you) and if u have enough patience she will snap out of it. I would recommend NOT staying with her. Had I known better I would have dumped him from the get go - but since I stood by him through the hell storms...
I can honestly say, that I have never been in love with such a beautiful soul!! He's amazing and obviously with all humans - No one's perfect. If you can handle this ordeal then go for it. But if the suspicion gets out of hand (starts poisoning ur mind with self doubt/jealousy) and becomes too much on you (a burden on ur life), then leave her Hun. There are women out there who are worth ur time.
Good luck!!
2007-02-03 16:20:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will regret it if you get to involved with this female,she won't and can't change.I know because I married into a family that lies.I hate it,I never no when they are telling the truth.They lie about things that doesn't make any sense.They think it is funny I never did.I hate a liar and you will to if you fall for this girl.Remember I warned you.
2007-02-03 16:48:17 · answer #6 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...Lying is something that I would definitely NOT put up with.
If you cant trust someone, what's the point? Either she has something to hide......Or she's a compulsive liar. The latter of which is an illness, and not a choice......in my opinion.
Thus, she needs some professional help.
2007-02-03 16:27:03 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is never good to date or become involved with a liar, as it only gets worse as time goes by, and u get more upset and lying doesn't instill trust and without trust u have no real basis to have any kind of life with a liar. she will lie to u about anything, and sooner or later u will get tired of it. she may not want to face any confrontation about anything, says alot about her character, and your future with her. just doesn't make for a good future.
2007-02-03 16:41:17 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no and no to both questions liars hurt feelings they make you go in deep in to a relationship then they toss you like your daily toilet paper because since they have been living a lie it dont matter to them. the only persons feelings that will get hurt in the long run is the sincere one so look 4 some one better!
2007-02-03 16:20:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't date liers. and it's a good reason not to trust them. Honesty is the best way of learning about another personality
2007-02-03 16:25:21 · answer #10 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋