2007-02-03 16:05:22 · 16 answers · asked by honeybee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you know where he is, you need to talk to him and let him know
that the deal is up. if not then time to get a lawyer and go from
there. but you need to get in touch with him one way or another.
2007-02-03 16:09:15 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well see, if this were my case he will be abroad having an affair because he is deployed. I will of course call him up ask for an explanation and call his supervisor inmediatly, because he would get punish by military laws. Now if he were right in front of me i would probably stamp my hand on his face before i say anything, call the police and get him in jail for a day or so. Then get divorce ready and end of story. You dont need to go out sleep around and show him that you can do what hes doing, law is with you in anyway and i would use it. Let him F someone else you F him up and take all he has. Sh...! Sorry but it really bugs me i hate cheaters!
2007-02-04 00:35:46 · answer #2 · answered by Alex P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a strong believer in marriage...but if he's not keeping to his vows...it may be time for the D word. But make sure you have proof. What proof is in an email that anyone could have access to. And you say 'his other woman' as if you already knew about her. Don't waste your time on someone that doesn't respect you or your wedding vows. You can do better. Confront him ASAP. Don't wait till he's had his fun and is back home.
2007-02-04 00:12:53 · answer #3 · answered by Fiance 1 · 5⤊ 0⤋
May be you shld talk to him and see where it has gone wrong. May be there is something that you have done that resort him to do such things. Or if there is nothing wrong you shld see the women and ask her to leave him as he is married put her in your shoe. But if that still don work out then you shld stay away from him a little while but if he still don realize it then sorry gal you shld leave him for good if not you'll suffer
2007-02-04 00:22:30 · answer #4 · answered by hanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HONEY BEE, Call up some friends and go out with them. Make sure you stay out past 2:00 am everybody knows what goes on if you are out past 2:00 am in the morning. Give him a taste of his own medicine see how he likes it.
2007-02-04 00:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn - I'd first call my mom, my sister then change the lock on the doors, then I'd get the papers filed for divorce on Monday / get a good lawyer!! Save ALL those emails that u peeped ( cut/paste) mail it to yourself/print it out to use in court.
2007-02-04 00:34:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, let's get the think tank at Stanford on the phone.
There's no "fixing" it. Not with someone who has gone to such great lengths to keep it from you.
You can hang around and take the lack of respect and abuse, or you can leave his lying cheating a$s.
DUH!
2007-02-04 00:12:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
contact a divorce lawyer so that you can take as much away from him as you can... take all his clothes and shoes and stuff and give it as a donation to a homeless shelter... any secrets you know about him spread them everywhere to all his friends and family (unless he knows any secrets about you that can harm you)... then wait for him with a bat and beat the leaving **** out of him and throw him out and serve him with divorce papers....
2007-02-04 00:37:14 · answer #8 · answered by sadgreeneyes3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean he is there now? Pretty careless of him.
Each person has his/her tolerance limit and other issues. Some would file for divorce immediately, some would do other things. Your choice.
2007-02-04 00:10:35 · answer #9 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Serve him divorce papers---- he has betrayed your marriage... End of story.
2007-02-04 00:09:54 · answer #10 · answered by April 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋