we were sharing pictures tonight that we had recently taken, mine were all above board shots, he showed me one of him having sex with someone
2007-02-03 16:04:23 · 12 answers · asked by Magical 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If he had sex when you were together I would feel horrible.For 4 years, it has gotten serious and there's no excuse for that.If he was playing or drunk its stupid of him to get drunk in an environment where he has the pressure to have sex with someone else.If he was serious about the picture, I think you can find someone else that will treat you right and you can make a new start.Guys like that aren't always there to make you feel good, but to take advantage of you.Hope you feel better
2007-02-03 16:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you take some pictures of you two having S*X and then go and show them to someone else and see if he would like that!
2007-02-04 00:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by Soldado 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhhh . . . . I'm sure he showed it to you precisely to see what your reaction would be to it. Simple as that. And I'm guessing that your reaction was shock and disgust since you used the word "terrible". Okay, now that he has revealed a side of him that you didn't know existed, what are you going to do?
I know what I'd do. You've been with him 4 years . . . . I sure wouldn't waste another day . . . . move on.
2007-02-04 00:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by TPhi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely no excuse for that. It is a shame that after 4 years he doesn't have more respect for you than to do something that cruel. You should not have to put up with things like that from someone who supposedly loves you.
2007-02-04 00:12:05 · answer #4 · answered by wbyrdie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was this from before???? Not that that excuses him showing you the pic!
Is your relationship exclusive? Or was he doing this as a way to be mean to you?
He may have thought you'd find it funny. Guys can be dopes like that. Just have it out with him.
2007-02-04 00:09:16 · answer #5 · answered by Chellebelle78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um depends on how hot the girl is. Yea I'm a guy, Freedom of speech granted cause you can't force me to sleep outside. If she's ugly I'll be sympathetic, if not something like "Wow YOU LUCKY DEVIL!"
2007-02-04 00:10:58 · answer #6 · answered by A Friend You'll Never Know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first ask yourself do you want to be with someone who will photograph himself having sex and did she know she was being photoed then what is the chance of him doing that with you and showing his friends i would run
2007-02-04 00:10:38 · answer #7 · answered by James F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pffffftttt. Angry and shocked. But you learn. Sadly you gain experience and get harder from it. I am sorry for your experience. You can either forgive or forget, depending on how you value your relationship. I decided to break up with her.
2007-02-04 00:09:57 · answer #8 · answered by Bobby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That totally sucks but life goes on.Decide wether or not u want to go out with even though you were seeing him.
2007-02-04 00:16:12 · answer #9 · answered by fashgurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, obviously he doesn't think clearly. he might of thought it would make you laugh, and it didn't i bet. if theres a picture of that, how do you know if he has taken a picture liek that of the two of you or if he will.
2007-02-04 00:16:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋