I met this girl that works at this store and we got along pretty well. I talked to her on about 3 occasions in the store. Anyway would it be wise if I ask her "Do you want to be ONE of my Valentines?" I dont want it to sound too exclusive. I dont want her to be frightened or say no I have a boyfriend or some other excuse. What do you think? Is there a better approach?
2007-02-03 16:01:49 · 6 answers · asked by ♫ I just crush alot ♫ 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
don't say "ONE of your Valentine's". she might think you are a player of some sort. women don't like players. and being exclusive is nice. she might be flattered by the fact that there are hundreds of other women out there, but you chose her, and only her, to be your Valentine.
2007-02-03 16:11:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOOOOOOO. Do not ask her that. It sounds like you have a string of girls and she is just one of them as in not very special. It would be better to ask her "since I think you are such a nice person and we do not know each other that well would you be my Valentine friend. " After all good relationships start with friendship. And this way you do not come on to strong and also avoid rejection.
2007-02-04 00:15:40 · answer #2 · answered by babysnake2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never say "do you want to be ONE of my valentines!" that would make her feel so bad!! if you say that to her then she'll probebly think she was the last resort (last person you could think of) or she'll think that theirs another girl in your life and she's your second hand.
2007-02-04 01:32:46 · answer #3 · answered by anonimis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah keep one of ure valentines to urself, get a single steamed rose thats it, it would deffinately mean soemthing to her, trust me girls re smart!
2007-02-04 01:17:51 · answer #4 · answered by tsilinko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no first learn abot her, watch her behaviour ettiqute and other qualities.talk to her. if she is suitable then ask her. but don't hurry.think with your mind.if you ask and she refuses you will be heart broken
2007-02-04 00:19:12 · answer #5 · answered by Soham N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should!
2007-02-04 00:43:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋