should i or not????

Question

I have very little self confidence in myself and conceder myself to be very fat and un pretty but I have found a guy that i am very much interested in and want to become more than friends and dont know how to tell him everyone says we would make such a cute couple and we are always flirting but neither of us have made the big move yet should I go for it or let him do the work???See Im really scared about making the moves so if yes make the moves how and why?Thanks and the more help and sooner the better he will be callin me very soon!!!

Answer 1

Well first off he's flirting with you so you must not look to bad to him, and believe it or not....not all guys are jerks and care about just your looks you know sometimes it really is what's on the inside. He's probably just as nervous as you. Go for it girl, Guys like that stuff to a girl that takes control and just grabs him and kisses him, lol not that you wanna go that far, just ask him out start slow.....but defiantly dont wait i mean what do you have to lose i mean he says no i just like being friends with you. It might be awkward but you'll live plus you'll regret it later not knowing and askin what if.......

Ps. CONFIDIENCE IS SEXY!!!!!!!!!!!! and your just as good as any one else and deserve to have someone care about you to..........GOOD LUCK

Answer 2

If you do not ask hip out then in waht way are you better off?
Better to be in with a grin. Ask him out to somewhere like a pinball arcade which is not nearly the big deal dinner out would be. Make it late afternoon. In case the pinball goes well, make sure you have a backup plan like a good movie that will take you into the nighttime, and will increase the chance of a good pash on the way home.
Wear a low-cut dress and a firm bra - he will soon forget you are a bit chunky if he thinks he might catch a glimpse of nipple

Answer 3

You can't always wait for him the make the first move.

Maybe he's just as worried about making the first move as you are.

The best option would be to ask him out one evening (not really as a date, but not as friends, either) and then see where things go.

Answer 4

The Prob: May be he's just as scared of making the first move as you are...

What you should do is tell him how you feel! Comunication is the key 4 a great relationship

Answer 5

If you think the feelings are mutual, then yes by all means make the first move. Maybe he is just as shy as you are at making the first move. Give it a try, I bet you won't regret it. Good luck!

Answer 6

well,if u want him 2 ask u out talk 2 your friend right in front of him and say 2 your friend where your going,what time,and nobody is comin wit u.he might come and talk 2 u and maybe he'll ask u out!but if u dont have confidence in yourself then u wont b able 2 ask anyone out sooner or later!pick my answer as best pleez!?

Answer 7

If you think you're too fat, you are, and he may just be setting you up to tell all his friend what a jerk he is going to make of you..(Sorry, guys can be really cruel... better you hear it now....)

So, if you wish someone to take you seriously, get to a nutritionist, get to the gym, and get serious....about letting that beautiful person you really are, show. In the meantime, don't be the fool.... being fat, is a serious health issue.

Answer 8

don't make the moves if you're scared of what will happen. i say wait for him and keep flirting with him. if he still doesn't make a move start to hang out with other guy friends as friends only.

Answer 9

OK GIRL WELL HES COME OVER RIGHT?WELL GOOD IF HE COMES WITH SOME ONE ELSE TAKE HIM IN TO ANOTHER ROOM SO ITS JSUT THE TWO OF U TELL HIM HOW U FEEL TELL HIM U LIKE HIM AND WANT TO GO OUT WITH HIM.Y SHOULD U ASK BECASUE IF HE DONT ASK U AND U DONT ASK HIM SOME OTHER GIRL WILL COME ALONG AND WELL THEN U WONT GET TO GO WITH HIM AND U SHOULD NEVER EVER PUT UR SELF DOWN LIKE THAT GIRL UR PRETTY IN THE NISDE AND OUT SIDE DONT EVER THINK UR NOT OK 8-) GOD LUCK HOPE I HELPED

Answer 10

did he tell you "you are hot", you are pretty" or something like that, if he did then tell him you want to go out with him and then ask him, remember this my brother always said "a close mouth, dont get eat", so if dont ask you will frustade all your life, saying why did i never ask him?, and if ask him the worse thing he will said is no, he is no going to kill, he is just going to said yes or no, good luck!!! :) (by the way dont ever call yourself unpretty or fat, because if you were one, no one will ever like you)