How to forget your first love?

Answer 1

Find your TRUE love!

Answer 2

You have a special memory. Unfortunatly it is just that. As we grow older we clarify our values and who we are. After my husband passed away, I got in touch with my first love. I found even though I had grown, he was exactly the same and immature. Then I checked out a childhood crush that lasted for years. He turned into someone without integrity, a player, not my type. Thought I'd try one more time with a neighborhood boy I always liked. He was now an alcoholic. People change! See what mutual friends have to say about that person now. That could nip it in the bud for good. I don't look back anymore, those rose colored glasses are just that!

Answer 3

I know everyone says this, but time will make the pain go away. I've tried sleeping with new people to get over an ex, and it didn't work. It only made me feel worse about myself.

It's now three years after the break up, and I've talked to my ex a few times. And you know what I realized? He was not worth loving. He was not smart, funny, caring, or anything else I would look for in a guy. And the girls he was dating - the ones I thought must somehow be better than me - weren't. It turns out that most of them didn't have a future and were just lazy.

Of course, it hurt a lot when we broke up. I got through it by pursuing new hobbies and writing affirmations on index cards. Whenever I felt like calling him, I looked at one of the cards. I told myself that I was better off without him and remembered all of the horrible things he'd done. Sure, I slipped up sometimes. But, as I got back into dating, things got better. Now, I feel nothing for him.

Answer 4

I don't think you ever forget your first love! I didn't talk to or see my first love for almost ten years and then all of a sudden I got a myspace message from him! I've been married to someone else for 7 years but seeing him again and chatting with him brought back all those great memories we had together. I don't think I'd want to forget them unless it was a bad experience for you.

Answer 5

You'll never forget your 1st love. It really hurts when it's over. So my advice to you is be spend time just by your self do things that you can't when you were him/her and realize that you are better off without him/her. At the end is meet up with new people start dating again. create a space for a new person in your heart not replace him/her cause if you try to do that you'll feel worst. But when you meet some one new don compare him/her with your ex or talk about it.. if you do that you'll never succeed in your new love....

Answer 6

Why u want to do that? The first love is ingrained in your brain and makes great fond memories when you get to middle age.

Answer 7

I wasn't looking to forget mine, but I did. I met my husband and I completely forgot about the other as*hole. It'll happen don't worry.

Answer 8

Find your soul mate and marry them.. Date and meet other people.. Make sure you are an adult though before you marry:) Over time you will forget them i feel.

Answer 9

i have to admit it takes some time.. but you will. eventually get over it.. and u learn from the mistakes that you made/happend and you move on and find someone better.. u end up happier =]]

hope this helped.

best of luck. my wishes to you.

Answer 10

You don't. Just get rid of their contact info. But usually you end up looking for it again later

Answer 11

You can't. Thats the problem. The memory just changes.