I have moved many times because of neighbours and so far, none of the neighbours I had before were good. I just wonder why I have such bad luck in life???
2007-02-03 15:42:14 · 13 answers · asked by Raines 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I just wonder why all the time I got is bad neighbours and not getting even 1 good neighbour whom I can fine with.. Is it really that hard??
2007-02-03 15:51:32 · update #1
I am mostly referring to my next door neighbours..
2007-02-03 15:53:58 · update #2
It's not me. Besides I am who I am and I can't change that and if it doesn't work with them, then it doesn't work. I find them to be kind of nosy, too friendly and bothersome...
2007-02-04 03:32:47 · update #3
I don't have a problem with it doesn't work between me and them, so there is no need to go about that issue. I just don't like to be bothered and interfered by them for me just trying to get things done and do whatever I want in and with my life.
2007-02-04 03:35:19 · update #4
poor planning. I've moved, geez, tons of times and have always had good neighbors. before i buy a house i go to the neighborhood i'm interested in. i spend time there in the morning on week days, in the evening on weekdays, and the same thing of friday and saturday day and night. if I don't like what i see and hear, i don't buy.
also, call the police and ask to speak to the crime prevention officer or the community relations officer. tell them where you're considering moving and ask how many calls they get in that area and what kinds of problems they're responding to. then ask, would YOU live there?
remember the 6 P's
prior planning prevents piss poor performance
it's like buying a bed for $50 and wondering why you don't sleep well!!!
2007-02-03 15:49:50 · answer #1 · answered by Sarge1572 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something unusual about you. Not that I'm saying it's bad or anything. Probably it's just the way you are.
I had neighbors who loved to gossip about our lifestyle. We never confronted them because of certain points. They don't know us very well and we practically don't care.
Its just funny how you said your last line. Why do you equate your life with having bad neighbors? What happened to your family and friends? Are you insecure, a socio-path or what? I think it is indeed time to focus on what makes you tick rather than blaming the universe of what you think is your misfortune.
2007-02-11 12:00:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound depressed and withdrawn. Maybe some of these people see that, too, and are trying to be friendly. If that's not what you want, just tell them you prefer to be left alone.
2007-02-11 23:42:24 · answer #3 · answered by KIZIAH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've moved *many* times because of your neighbors, then really, you've got at some point to look at yourself as the source of the problem.
2007-02-10 12:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by Rienzi H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are getting ruder and more more selfish all the time, it is harder to avoid them. Especially those with loud stereos that wake us up in the late evening, people just care about themselves anymore.
2007-02-03 23:46:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop focusing on changing your neighbors and focus on self what would you do to better you as a good neighbor lead by an example and if they dont catch your drift then f*ckem
2007-02-11 20:38:20 · answer #6 · answered by hu314a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you're a country bumpkin and don't realize it. move out into a rural area. where you are separated by a field of corn or some crawfish ponds. you will love it. you can pee off of your front or back porch. nobody will see you.
2007-02-11 18:28:53 · answer #7 · answered by REALLY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May b its you who has big welcoming heart...
If I were you, I would change my way and dont expect too much from my neighbours....lol
2007-02-04 00:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by DON 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you don't want to hear it but.... YOU need to be a better neighbor. That will solve almost every neighbor issue.
2007-02-11 19:51:13 · answer #9 · answered by Yowdy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In life you manifest what you focus on. If you focus on bad luck, that's what you get. What you seek, you shall fnd.
2007-02-03 23:47:34 · answer #10 · answered by Muga Wa Kabbz 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋