2007-02-03 15:33:18 · 17 answers · asked by Lorrane 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In the world we live in today, i would in a HEARTBEAT. Unless i've known my husband since we were babies and i was almost 100% postive that he hadn't been with anyone.
2007-02-03 15:37:25 · answer #1 · answered by laangel464 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some states it is really the regulation for blood tests in the previous marriage. examine if yours is truly one of them, if so, it is already determined for you. If no longer, then hit upon a time even as he's had a good day and is in a truly calm and comfortable mood. Then gently elevate the problem of you both having a actual finished, and the blood paintings. That way you're literally not coming for the length of like HIV is your merely problem. he will in all likelihood take it extra ordinary in case you sound like you're apprehensive about both truly one of your wellness, no longer merely one ingredient. If he receives mad about it, i ought to look ahead to his mood to subside, then clarify your causes. Have some good ones waiting merely in case. Like wanting to have the prospect for healthy youthful ones, a lengthy life jointly, and to insure that you 2 is merely no longer restricted on your sex lives. Even different STD's and ailments can be a a threat problem contained in the destiny, so an finished paintings up ought to locate them now. A marvel later after marriage gained't be what you 2 ought to favor. make constructive you tell him that you want it for both truly one of you, for his threat-free practices besides as yours. because you 2 are engaged, i ought to imagine that he should be being concerned and thoughtful. inspite of if he did not agree, he ought to in all likelihood appreciate your emotions. it is really a normal element you're asking him to do.
2016-11-02 06:33:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have asked that before I ever married him. If you have any doubt that he may have this then you should be tested before any children are considered. But I think that the best thing to do is go talk to your doctor and he will be able to answer all the questions that you have.
2007-02-03 15:38:17 · answer #3 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sure...it's responsible..if they had a problem then they are hiding something and they can just leave...a healthy child is more important than a HIV ridden husband who will create a HIV ridden baby ..any day of the week
2007-02-03 15:37:28 · answer #4 · answered by fade_this_rally 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be married to someone I thought might be down with the HIV.
2007-02-03 15:36:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a real trusting relationship. Do the world a favor and get yourselves sterilized. We don't need you adding to the gene pool.
2007-02-03 15:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by Senor Pig 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
mmmhm i would but bring it up in a nice way and just be like i wanna be on da safe side and be madd chill wit it. I would ask cuz i don't wnna be ending up i a big mess that i can't get myself out of...and its worth it.
2007-02-03 15:36:13 · answer #7 · answered by jbaby443 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhh yeah who know when you have the the baby it start turn pink and stuff because the parents neglected to get tested and you have to suffer for financially and physically not to mention the baby, i say go for it be safe about it its the right way to go!
2007-02-03 15:40:05 · answer #8 · answered by Baby_K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD ASK THAT BEFORE YOU HAVE SEX. SO THE BEST NOW IS TO HAVE BOTH OF YOU GET TESTED. I BELIEVE THE HEALTH DEPT HAS A FREE CLINIC.
2007-02-03 15:38:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have already had sex why would this matter in this late stage... When you get prgnant they will find out anyway if you have it with blood work and all.
2007-02-03 15:36:11 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋