Last month I found out this boy was the one that spread a rumor about how mean I am! So I saw him at the lunch line and kicked him in the nuts, he just made this very surprised face holding his nuts, then after 3 or 5 seconds he started feeling it and fell to the floor in the fetal position. I thought it was so funny and couldn’t help but to laugh, all the girls laughed too and most of the boys just stared. After a few minutes he even started throwing up, wow I am glad I hurt him that much, sure serves him right. I was almost finishing my lunch when he started crying with a very ugly face, then after a while he got off the floor and left(he must have lost his appetite =)). Later I found out he had to lay down for about an hour in the nurses office. He never messed with me again! Anyway, my boyfriend is always bugging me about how wrong it was for me to do that to him, and I am FED UP, I warned him 2 times now!!
2007-02-03 15:24:24 · 30 answers · asked by soccerchick 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
You either have issues, or you're just a spoiled brat used to having her way. I would also assume and hope you're under 18, because to have such an immature mind as a legal adult just makes the world that much more dangerous for the rest of us.
You've seen the majority of answers. You're just as sad and pathetic as the man who beats up his girlfriend. Not to say the two can be comparable, but society is not going to advance with women doing these things to men while protesting equal rights and what not, and you're just slowing progress down. The issue at hand is how you think you have this right to kick your boyfriend's privates, as if it is your RIGHT, like you control him and you are something so special.
In any case, congratulations. You proved that boy right, and only made a show that you are indeed, mean, if he did not use stronger words to describe you which, would have been appropriate. Just better hope you don't mess with someone next time who is say, a member of a very violent and brutal gang, or next time your question will be "I am BEATEN and bloody in an unknown place, why did I kick that guy's nuts?"
2007-02-03 17:54:57 · answer #1 · answered by onlyoneinall 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Aside from the fact that you have a serious anger problem, as well as the possibility of an assault charge pending, how was your day. I am very glad I do not know you as I would be tempted to have your hide nailed to the wall by the police as you just publicly confessed to doing bodily harm to another person and that is a major action for being sued, which brings up my other thought about you maturity, which doesn't exist, so go and play little girl while you can
2007-02-03 18:44:09 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You made your point and you had your revenge in the cafeteria. You even enjoyed his pain!
Maybe he is right about you, although there is no excuse for his gossip. You 'are' mean though, if you are even considering doing such a thing again - expecially knowing the pain you caused.
If your boyfriend brings out such a lack of self-restraint in you, then you need to either find a boy who brings out the best in you, or FIND HELP for your vengful character. You don't sound like a very compassionate young woman, based on what you have written. It is scary to think that you might be raising a future generation.
Spite is an ugly thing in 'either' gender. Go watch BAMBI or something and mellow out a bit.
2007-02-03 17:01:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming that you are either making this up or you are fantacizing that you did this. But let's pretend that you did something like this. First of all, what you did is considered a felony. Second, this is domestic violence. While the vast majority of domestic violence is committed by men, this story shows that women are capable of doing it, too. That you resorted to violence shows that you have some psychological problems that must be addressed. Perhaps you were abused as a child. Probably. Being a woman does not mean you have a license to commit violence. Frankly, what you did was far worse that what you think, but probably can't confirm, your boyfriend did. You crossed the line. My advice is: Apologize to your boyfriend, take a little time off from him, hope he can forgive you, and get psychological help.
2007-02-03 16:14:22 · answer #4 · answered by Erik B 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Yes, everyone is right but you. The first boy was right, you ARE mean. You caused him great pain and you are here telling the world how glad you were about his pain, reveling in just how severe his pain was. Your BF is right, you were wrong to do it, meanness aside you could cause permanent damage (which I'm sure would just make you happier). And now, eager to repeat this enjoyable experience of inflicting pain you threaten you BF waiting for the opportunity to do it again.
I would say your parents missed an excellent opportunity to use a condom.
2007-02-03 15:56:20 · answer #5 · answered by Crabby Patty 5 · 9⤊ 0⤋
Does anyone else find it ironic that was all because he spread a rumor that she is "mean?" I can't imagine..
Anyway, to answer your question..go for it..maybe you'll wind up in jail where other girls will teach you the hard way that it's not cool to hurt someone so bad that they throw up.
One more thing..don't post these idiotic questions in the Women's Studies category..we already have to fight against the assumption that men are smarter..your making it much harder to do.
2007-02-03 15:51:32 · answer #6 · answered by goldengirl 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I can understand how you can get fed up just break up with your boyfriend and just because some guys are nuts do not do this unless absolutely necessary-such as if they are causing you unbearable grief or for protection. Next time tell him to go away. Boyfriend or any others that bothers you. Revenge can be sweet but not always wise-when the pay back comes.
2007-02-03 17:39:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Too bad that the first boy didn't file a police complaint. Maybe a little time getting a striped suntan would give you time to figure out how to act better. Alternatively, maybe he'll hit you in the head with a bat. Maybe.
2007-02-03 15:34:48 · answer #8 · answered by Curmudgeon 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'll tell you what, you little immature spoiled brat that doesn't deserve a boyfriend! I had an ex girlfriend that kicked me in the nuts once before about 25 years ago, and after I got back up, I kicked her in the same spot!! She layed on the floor longer than I did!! Someone needs to do that to you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-03 16:28:12 · answer #9 · answered by maerivsa 2 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Actually he was right to spread a "rumor" cause the rumor was the truth, based on what I just read you are mean, to mean to express.... And well since your not a guy, what if a guy came up to u and seriously injured ur breasts then it would hurt like hell but the pain he was feeling was probably worse...
2016-05-24 01:27:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋