i found an opened condom wrapper in my guy's truck, he said he does not know how it got there?any one had?

Question

we've been together married for 9 yrs. no cheating issues in the past? anyone had this experience?

Answer 1

Be pleased he is a)using a condom and b) doing it the truck - not much chance of him falling in love over the steering wheel.

If he is doing this, then he has needs you are not satisfying, look to yourself for the answer. He is denying it because he loves you.

Answer 2

Well I have never had that happen to me. But I can tell you this. If you and your husband do not use condoms and have never done it in his truck with a condom then you already know, something has been going on. As far as the no cheating in the past is that because you never found a condom wrapper ? I know you are looking for a good answer that will explain it but the truth is only you can decide if he is lying or not. I think that I would be really suspicious.

Answer 3

I'm sorry to say but he's probably lying to you unless he has a bachelor friend that borrowed the vehicle, how else would it have gotten in there?

You say you've been together for 9yrs, no cheating issues in the past. That translates to me as, you just haven't caught him cheating until the other day when you found the condom wrapper.

Sorry sweetie, you two need to sit down and have a heart to heart and work this out or move on separate ways.

Good Luck!

Answer 4

If it was in the bed of the truck don't worry. People throw stuff in the back of my truck all the time. They think it's a trash can.
If it was in the cab .....If he leaves the window down could be the same thing.
If not you need to have a sit down and talk with him.
Maybe a quick stop with a hooker?

If he is the kind of guy you trust with your life, let it go and keep an eye on things.

update:
I asked my husband your question. He said the guys lying, unless someone else was using is truck.

Guys know. I'd be very careful.

Answer 5

Oh...and the condom just hulked out of it's wrapper and went rampaging down the street all on it's own.

I say, don't automatically assume guilt or innocence. Find out some facts and keep an eye on your man. Hopefully, if he was cheating on you, he's figured out that he's gonna get caught and he'll stop doing it. If he wasn't and somebody was just playing a cruel practical joke (and it does happen), then you're not throwing away your marriage over something silly.

Answer 6

I haven't had that experience, but if I did I he would definitely have some 'splainin' to do. You better take a good, hard look at your man, honey. Maybe hire a P.I. to check out what he's doing. An opened condom wrapper in his truck is nothing to take lightly.

Answer 7

He's lying no doubt in my mind. Opened condom wrappers don't just appear out of nowhere. You have some serious things to talk about. Good luck

Answer 8

Well, first trust your instict and your gut. It will tell you what the heck is going on. No guy is going to admit to you that he has had sex with another person. I believe the gun could be literally smoking and they would have it in their hand with the body on the floor and they would still not admit to it. If you find out for sure he has been cheating on you, get out of the relationship, unless you like punishment. It is destructive to both of you and will not help your self-esteem one bit. Love your self and get on and find some one who will love you right back.

Answer 9

You found a condom wrapper in HIS truck. Red flag!

Answer 10

I wouldn't believe him if I were you, if he didn't leave the wrapper there, then who did? I would spy on him if I were you and see what he's up to, because I reckon he must be cheating on you! Follow him and see where he goes, see if he is lying and is hiding something from you. Good Luck!!