How do i find a good woman?

Question

Right now i am kind of bitter,i have been cheated on,by every woman i dated.So how do i find trust again.

Answer 1

I feel the same about guys. Too bad we are here instead of in person huh? I am still waiting for fate to step in cuz im sick of games.

Answer 2

Don't be so ready to jump in the sack with women. If she is willing to do so right away... then chances are, she may not be as descriminating as the kind of woman you want as a partner.

Don't rule out the girls who don't look like models. I am not saying that you have to look for dawgs... but, there are some pretty wonderful people out there and if you are only interested in the ones who look like Cindy Crawford, you may miss out on the very thing you are searching for.

Find someone you can be friends with. Someone you enjoy spending time with, and who enjoys spending time with you.

Get to know the real person before you exchange bodily fluids. After all... sex lasts an hour, what do you do with the person for the other 23?

Once you find that other person who has the same moral attitude and ethics applicable to a relationship... you will find that the trust will follow. You have been dating women in a certain pattern. Each one you have chosen has cheated. So you are picking the same type of woman each time. (the definition of doing something stupid is 'doing the same thing over and over expecting a different outcome'). Look at the types of women you have gone for in the past. Make a break from that type.

Stop looking for love in all the wrong places. The right girl is out there. You just have to train yourself to recognize her.

Don't lose faith. She is out there waiting for you.

Answer 3

If it has been a short time since you broke up with your ex, then try waiting awhile before you get into another relationship. Then ask yourself why you are attracting these kind of women so often. Have you seen the movie, " The Secret" and how it explains the Law of Attraction? I am dealing with the trust issues myself and realized just recently , that I was attracting these types. It is an interesting subject. I might also ask, where are you meeting these women? Did you check them out before you became seriously involved with them? What kind of woman do you want to be with and are you wanting a monogamous relationship? Maybe they were in it just for the sex with you and that may be all they have to give at this time.

Answer 4

First of all don't go looking for it. Find a friend. Go to places that atttract the type of person who would have the qualities you are looking for. Meet lots of people. One will stand out and you will find yourself feeling safe enough to allow yourself to trust again.

Answer 5

Depends on your definition of a good woman. I could go on for hours on this. Short answer: find one with very low milage. This is rare these days so good luck!

Answer 6

Be a "P.I.", sort to speak.
Ask around, get "Clues."

Take a break from dating for awhile. Let the bitterness subside, this will taint your view of women, and some women can sense this.

Answer 7

Are the women you've dated the same type? Ask yourself this. Do they hang with the same type of ppl? Are their friends all single? etc. If your answer to this is yes, then maybe you should try dating someone from another class.

Answer 8

Trust - wow! It's difficult! Like me, you need to start picking your partners really good and take your time before you get completely involved.

Answer 9

be a good person you will find a nice good woman.

Answer 10

If you figure that out let me know (along with several million others)