i am good friends with this guy. we have been friends for 7 months. we were trying to date but he didn't want to ruin the friendship. well every since then we talk everday about everything, and when i talk about another guy he either change the subject or totally ignore what i say about a guy. what should i do? if i ask if he's jealous he says no. what should i do?
2007-02-03 15:11:27 · 13 answers · asked by a_j_8946 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When he talks about another girl do you do the same thing he does? If so there are no feelings between you two. If he is the only one that does it you will need to ask him why he dosent feel comfortable when you talk about other guys. Asking him if he is jealous is like saying he is not a man. I have a friend at work and she had some family issues when i started dating her so she wanted to be just friends. I let her know that I still like her and only when she is ready i would be there for her. Depending on how old you both are he having an open communication on how you feel for him may work. You may want to start with i want to know why you dont like me talking about other guys. If he still cant find a way to answer that there is no feeling other than friendship there.
2007-02-03 15:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by kyle13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, there certainly are feelings there. Maybe he cares so much that he doesn't want to loose the great friendship the two of you have. You know, sometimes when we are young a great friendship with a boy is really the most important thing. You have a whole lifetime ahead of you, but a true friend is one in a million. If you want to date other guys just tell him. Please be open with him. He'll handle it. You never know....... He just might decide to take a chance. I still have male friends that I dated years ago because we were very honest towards each other.
2007-02-03 15:25:25 · answer #2 · answered by truckermate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you read the book, "He's Just Not That Into You"? It may help you with this issue. If he wanted to be your boyfriend, he would have made a move by now. My feeling is that he enjoys your company as a friend, but doesn't want to talk about other guys with you as he knows that when you get a boyfriend, you won't be able to spend time with him anymore. Personally, I think that if you want a boyfriend you should cut this guy loose and concentrate on finding a guy who wants to be your friend AND your boyfriend.
2007-02-03 15:19:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him how he feels about you and let him know how you feel about him. Ask him what kind of relationship he wants; a friendship or something more. It is better to get both of your feelings out in the open so you can stop being confused about what is going on.
2007-02-03 15:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by stefanie100786 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's jealous. Men don't ever just want to be "friends only" with women.
Would you rather have a new boyfriend, or a good friend.
2007-02-03 15:13:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi.. i'm no longer in touch approximately wether others experience what i think..if i think something, no longer inevitably the different has the comparable feeling.. And apart from for me its hide the sensation..I dun like troubling others..for I even have already afflicted others a lot..and considered one of my pals stated it to me as quickly as that i'm relatively stable at controlling my thoughts and thoughts..If i think that it is going to likely be shared..i bypass with it.. stable day.. :)
2016-10-01 09:42:44 · answer #6 · answered by koffler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that he is trying not to hurt your feelings. He probably does not want to hear about the other guys because the conversation might turn back towards him. Think about it, do you really want to date someone who plays "head games?" You deserve better.
2007-02-03 15:17:55 · answer #7 · answered by BR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a good idea bringing other guys in the conversation. my girlfriend who I'm talking to right now does the same thing, so when she talks about other guys , I talk about other girls, and that creates a little bit of conflict. so neither party realy likes to talk about the opposite sex.
2007-02-03 15:15:37 · answer #8 · answered by v k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he has feelings for you but like he said doesnt want to ruin your friendship. sit him down and tell him how you feel about him. tell him you really want to see if you to dating would work. and other things that you feel about him.
2007-02-03 15:15:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like there are feelings there, try not to make him jealous
2007-02-03 15:13:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋