I've always thought it was easier for a woman to emotionally connect with a man than vice versa. Yesterday, my guy friend confessed that he emotionally connected to me after two months. It took me much longer, probably about 6 months. I was surprised to hear that and am curious how this happens with a man so quickly. Especially since we haven't had sex. I'm wondering if it's just the chase. I'm afraid if we do, he might lose interest in me.
2007-02-03 15:09:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's one of those emotional guys. If you like that type go for it.
2007-02-03 15:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are much more emotional than woman give them credit for. When they are divorced and find that soon after or right before they are in deep with someone they are quite surprised, but he won't let his past get in the way if it is someone really special and caring. Not only that, but he won't be doing it for sex when there is some sort of deeper connection.
2007-02-03 23:14:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be completely honest, its really hard to see his true intentions from this brief excerpt from your life. however, a lot of times guys can "fall" for you based on initial attraction. this means that it could have something to do with physical attraction. but it sounds like you guys have been together for a while. most guys that are in it just for the sex, won't wait around for six months. it sounds like he has some genuine feelings here. as far as sex goes, that's a big decision one that only you can make. if it were me, however, i would prob. go for it. but i don't know what your standards are. i would pray about it and think about it for a few days then make your decision.
2007-02-03 23:28:08 · answer #3 · answered by Kelye R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you give it away, all the rest is forgotten...You hold onto your virtue as long as you can and let the relationship continue to grow...until you are ready for that major step of sexual intercourse with him....just so you know, a man will say anything to get a woman into bed....you have to be ready and feel that you are completely ready...It's gone once you make that big step...but not theirs....and men/boys will talk.....
2007-02-03 23:15:11 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Minnie Mouse♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel he really likes you, and not just to have sex with you. Something might come of this if you are willing to take the chance, so if you really connect with the guy and he with you, just go for it!! Good Luck!!
2007-02-03 23:17:04 · answer #5 · answered by saau2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush into sex. If he really cares, he'll still want to be with you. Follow your true instincts. Good men like ladies who aren't too easy. That's who they'll chose to marry.
2007-02-03 23:13:41 · answer #6 · answered by Da Bomb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The connection is different for every person and every relationship. Do you have a reason to believe he is lying? ask yourself why you don't trust him because that's the more important here.
2007-02-03 23:12:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he has waited this long there is a good chance he will still adore you later after sex.
2007-02-03 23:12:52 · answer #8 · answered by l'il mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he so wants to jump in your pants my fiance and I never did it until a year and we were really emotionall with each other before that , he so wants sex let him continue to chase after awhile he'll get tired and then really get emotional!
2007-02-03 23:14:40 · answer #9 · answered by Baby_K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men fall in love quicker, women fall in love farther.
2007-02-03 23:13:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never know, it could work out and you stay toghether forever, when i first saw my girlfriend I knew that I loved her from the moment I saw her, and had to work my butt off to get her to see it. It has been worth it. but that is me he could just be in it for the nookie, make him sweat it out.
2007-02-03 23:13:11 · answer #11 · answered by smitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋