One of my friends is REALLY braggy. shes fun to hang with but shes always saying how she fits into a B cup but i'd be surprised if she even wore an A cup. Also she really makes me feel bad when she brags about be only 80 pounds. I really like hanging with her and shes a good friend but along with the braging she also can NOT keep secerts. What should i do?
Really need help here people.
2007-02-03 15:07:51 · 17 answers · asked by Caterpillar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she might be narcissistic. If she is, don't expect her to change. The prognosis for narcissists is generally poor.
2007-02-03 15:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by orderly logic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your actually impressed by her, don't be! She is building herself up by making you feel insecure and she knows it! Worst of all she is betraying you by using your confided secrets as interesting gossip to make her seem so "all knowing" to other girls! Lose her! She's a scamp a vamp and a bit of a tramp! And tell her she must have 5 pounds in each boob if she's wearing a B cup and only weighs 80 pounds! She will fall over on her face! Look out! Boobs away!
2007-02-03 23:17:45 · answer #2 · answered by Faerie loue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your friend is 80 lbs and not in a hospital, you're obviously pretty young.
the key here is to learn how to manage others. when she irritates you with bragging, dont say anything, just wrinkle your nose a little, and look bored
when you catch her telling something she shouldnt, confront her abruptly, so that it leaaves her a little startled
the key to managing relationships, is to lose fear of making others unconfortable, when it needs to be done
2007-02-03 23:22:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way you handle that is too let her know that she is real cool but her bragging is really being annoying. and about the secert part i would teel her off about that. I would teel her that i dont tell your secerts so dont tell mine and if she cant handle what you say or she gets mad about it. That lets you know if she is really your friend. most people would like people to let them know the real deal.
2007-02-03 23:13:50 · answer #4 · answered by pimpin 909 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
80 pounds? that's nothing to show off about. she's probably bolemic, or anarexic or something. a good gust of wind would carry her away.
i can't see how your friends with her. she belittles you with her light weightness, he breast size, and she can't keep a secret. what kind of friend is that?
a friend doesn't make you feel bad - period! whatever that quality is you see in her, find it in someone else, this one sounds a bit too self centered.
2007-02-03 23:11:24 · answer #5 · answered by mike s 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can still be friends, but I would not tell her any secrets. Take it from me.....been there done that, She will always be that way and will talk about every one of you behind your backs. She is not a BF material....She will do whatever to be the center of attention,even if that means talking crap about you behind your back, she will talk crap about the others behind their back to you....Watch yourself, and I hope her other friends will wise up soon as well.
2007-02-03 23:16:25 · answer #6 · answered by mrs_endless 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a daughter with friends like yours. Her mom told her not to hang out with them anymore. I am glad she did; my daughter is happier now. There are so many friends out there who will make you feel better on any given day. She is not your friend. Trust your instinct.
2007-02-03 23:12:45 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. USA 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you can't trust her and you really dont like to sit and here her brag all day. just be honest with her, thats what friends are supposed to do.
2007-02-03 23:13:05 · answer #8 · answered by ~Val~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girls who tend to brag are actually insecure. Be sure of who you are and proud of it! Hopefully your positive selfeseem will rub off.
2007-02-03 23:12:30 · answer #9 · answered by taylorvoltaire 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either you put up with her, or you don't. What help do you need? Only you can make this decision.
2007-02-03 23:10:28 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋