2007-02-03 14:49:37 · 24 answers · asked by mysticfox28 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let him have it. You will never trust him again. Break clean and get a really good lawyer.
2007-02-03 14:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can either pretend you don't know. And go on with life tying to save your marriage. Or you can really investigate until you have proof and hit him with the proof and watch him lie to your face about it and then you will know how much of a man he is if he can sit there and lie to your face when you know for a fact that he is cheating. Then the answer of what to do would be obvious to me.
2007-02-03 23:29:40 · answer #2 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember always, if your husband finds out that you are the one cheating. Do you think that he would stay quite and continue the relationship normal or he would divorce you?!? Turn things around.
2007-02-03 23:01:18 · answer #3 · answered by Dengosa27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I suggest u get some concrete evidence like a picture, a copy of an email, a taped message....something that'll hold up in court and confront him. Be sure to give hima chance to redeem himself b4 u present ur evidence, but if he doesn't....let him know what u know and leave. Once a cheater, always a cheater. And if he's done it on more than one occassion, it wasnt a mistake, its a ritual. Dont let him fool u any longer, just get ur sh*t together and leave his sorry ***.
2007-02-03 22:57:06 · answer #4 · answered by BeautifuLL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is currently cheating then tell him to stop or make a choice between you or that other chick.
Now if he agrees to leave his cheating ways in the past, then its all good. Right ladies? After all its the past that makes us who we are today. Shows us what we want and what we don't want.
2007-02-03 23:02:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I am so so sorry, if you have not told him you know of his cheating you must ask yourself, if you can live with not telling, or if you are ready to face the truth. Some marriages can get past this problem others can not. Really it is how you feel, are you beyond hurt and are mad? good luck to you
2007-02-03 22:54:05 · answer #6 · answered by trip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know he is cheating then ask him for a divorce. He can't love you and cheat on you too. Confront him and ask him for the truth then if you already know and he lies then get rid of him.
2007-02-03 22:55:50 · answer #7 · answered by swty059p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DIVORCE!! ! once a cheater always a cheater.
You have to make a decision can you live with a man that has cheated? Would you look at him the same? Does he RESPECT you?
2007-02-03 22:57:28 · answer #8 · answered by Shan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends upon if you want to try and save the relationship or not but to do the save always takes a lot of work and you really never trust the offender any more, without trust there is nothing anyhow so best to just go your way and end it
2007-02-03 23:50:59 · answer #9 · answered by billc4u 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you know for sure? does he love her? Can you work this
out. maybe you need to find out what is wrong with your marriage, and why he would cheat. Some men can never
get what they need , I am not talking about sex. They need
someone to talk to them and be there for them. yes sometimes
only about sex to. I would find out if was sex or just for the emotional reason. Talk to him. do not yell. wish you the best.
2007-02-03 23:31:46 · answer #10 · answered by Krissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you have full blown proof that thats whats going on then go from there... if you feel you can never trust him again, divorce him, but if for some reason you feel it be best to try an work it out.. then get marriage counseling...hope that helped!!!
2007-02-03 22:54:53 · answer #11 · answered by Allison R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋