Why do I get annoyed/irritated at certain people for no apparent reason? I try not to, but i can't help it. Is that normal?
2007-02-03 14:48:46 · 8 answers · asked by GerMel 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am really kind & nice & no i am not spoiled, but there are just times when i hate someone for no reason.
I hate being this way, but i cant control my emotions.
2007-02-03 14:55:44 · update #1
well it could be a personality clash and yes its normal
2007-02-03 14:51:58 · answer #1 · answered by warr31 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi there,
They say we are irritated by traits and mannerisms that other people exhibit that we have.??
Also some people put others down to make themselves feel better, now neither of these factor's may be of concern to you but if you feel irritated by people that don't concern you "directly" you may need to take a look at your own life because like it or dis-like it we are around other people all the time.
And you " catch alot more Bee's with honey than you do with Vinegar".
Good luck.
2007-02-03 23:00:54 · answer #2 · answered by Adrian 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has triggers that cause them to become angry. Is something you have experienced with someone else that was really abrasive. and possibly very personal because was someone close to you or because was so absurd and ugly. Yes you can help it. Stop reacting and become proactive. Saying you can't control it is nothing more than pride. Which admits defeat. Practice. You know you can do better and that is precisely why you get so annoyed. I know. Been there done that.
2007-02-03 22:57:33 · answer #3 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you been spoiled and have things always gone your way or are you an only child... those are good reasons why people might bug you..... or, do you have love and understanding in your heart for others?
2007-02-03 22:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by sushihen2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm also like that..maybe there really is a reason but you haven't thought of it yet..or maybe it's just pre-menstrual whatever thingy..maybe there's something that person has done to you in the past that still annoys you up to now..or maybe there's just something that's really annoying about that person..maybe you're not the only person that gets annoyed about that something..well,you can't really expect everybody to like you and vice-versa..
2007-02-03 22:57:19 · answer #5 · answered by nicly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just start to think that whatever they are doing that annoyes you is ok and just because you don't act like that doesn't make it wrong. I do understand because blondes always erk me.
2007-02-03 23:03:09 · answer #6 · answered by l'il mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should really try to controll your temper and not get irratated as easily.
2007-02-03 22:53:07 · answer #7 · answered by ~*Salsa*~ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's normal for me...
2007-02-03 22:51:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋