I know this sounds a little off but...I mean if you think about it,wherever theres a gay guy theres a swarm of girls who could be off with a significant other but choose to be a hag..now im not frowning upon this cuz ive been a hag since adolescence but im just wondering like,what is it about gay guys that draws girls to them.im sure that this isnt a gay guys fantasy,but they seem to like it..im not sure exactly what it means to some people as opposed to others.
2007-02-03 14:46:05 · 8 answers · asked by Jynx™ 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
The pressure about where the relationship is going is eliminated. Women don't marry gay guys when they know he's gay. You can invite him up for coffee after a movie and it won't be interpreted as anything other than a time to relax and converse. With straight guys you always have to keep them at arm's length because you know he's thinking with the wrong end unless you make it ABUNDANTLY CLEAR it is just a friendship thing. As a bonus, gay guys tend to enjoy a lot of activites women do... shop, check out the cute guys (he's great to share secrets with if you are dating someone, also makes for a great soundboard because he isn't going to get jealous), most aren't too big into sports but definitely like working out, and sitting around and talking is perfectly fine.
2007-02-03 14:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by wanfuforever 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Some of my best friends have been gay men. I feel safe with them because I know they are paying more attention to the conversation we're having then the way my shirt hangs over my breasts. I know that he is genuinely concerned about taking me home and then end of the night instead of taking me back to his place to get into his pants. I just know that I've actually been treated like a lady in a gay man's presence more than I have in a straight man's.
2007-02-03 22:58:59 · answer #2 · answered by Lizzy G 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because the chances of us dragging a girl/woman into an alley and raping her are slim to none.
Because when a girl/woman talks to us we aren't looking at her breasts.
Because we won't try to get a girl/woman drunk and take advantage of her.
Because if we become friends, there is no ulterior motive.
Because we can go shoe shopping together? LOL
2007-02-03 23:03:57 · answer #3 · answered by ramblin' robert 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Being around someone of the opposite sex without any sexual tension or having to worry about them taking advantage of you in your hour of need.
2007-02-04 00:32:07 · answer #4 · answered by Rageling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl told me that it was because I looked in her eyes instead of looking at her chest, and when we talked I listened to her instead of talking about myself.
2007-02-03 23:12:44 · answer #5 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's proven that the more feminine and masculine you are at the same time the more you are liked. It's been tested.
2007-02-03 22:53:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally hate that kind of attention. I prefer sincere friendships.
2007-02-03 22:48:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we like them for who they are..not what they can do for us sexually.
2007-02-03 22:58:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋