if ur ex is moving on, what should u do to make him come back some day?

Question

he's trying to move on so hard. there's no more pics of mine in his room;he never mentions me on his own;if someone else does, he'd say how i was crazy to justify his decision.
i think some time apart would be helpful for us. i even think like 2 or 3 or even 6 months are ok. but i dont wanna lose him forever. what should i do? i havent contacted him for a month and i'm afraid he's gonna forget me or completely lose feelings for me if i stay not contacting him at all.
help...

ps:yes, he's immature and likes to feed his ego.

Answer 1

Time apart is a good thing. 2 make a long story short my wife & I split up so she could what she felt was the most important thing to her & I think she wanted a divorce. I moved in July 2 a different state. She came to see me in October. I moved back per her request, weer still separated but she plans 2 move back after she gets her fiances in order. Point being if love is real time proves it to us. Ibm guessing U R still young. Go ahead with Ur plans. Guys don't mature as fast as females nor do they know what they want as soon (most men ). I suggest U go on with Ur life & don't dewell on him. If it's meant 2 be it will be. Do as Ur doing & don't communicate with him. I'm a frim believer that all things happen 4 a reason. We don't see or know why but it does come 2 us at a later time. LIVE UR life 4 U. Move on & find someone else. Breaking up/seperating is a hard thing 2 go through. U need 2 be happy. Go out & find happiness. I hope this helps or gives U something 2 think about.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

well let me start off by saying that I know how are you feel, becuase I am in a similar situation right now except my ex is not immature or hurtful like that and we still speak...however I do someday hope that we will be together again...it sounds like hes not really someone you want to be with if he is speaking of you in that way...the best way to make him want you back is to get on with your life and find happiness... you will see that time will allow you to reflect and really see if he is the one you want to be with you. Good Luck and remember not to settle!