Tonight I ended everything and anything I had with my ex gf..We went out, but it didn't work out cuz of long dist. She's found someone new(they just started about a month ago), but she and I k.i.t. and most recently I went out to Vegas(where she lives), and we hung out one night, and one thing led to another. Tonight, she texts me and tells me she just wants to solely be friends, nothing more, and if I can't accept that, then we shouldn't talk at all(she says she's trying the whole faithful thing with her new girl) I told her fine, then we won't talk anymore, cuz she knows how I feel about her still.I said, after tonight, she won't have to hear from me anymore.Not even a week ago, she tells me she misses me, and wants to see me etc, now she sings me a different tune? What gives??? This has happened in the past, where she was "faithful" with her past relationships, but ALWAYS came back to me.Could she truly be faithful? or once a cheat always? how long afterward do they come back?
2007-02-03 14:37:54 · 6 answers · asked by Brekn'dwn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Could this just be another mind game? Do ex's usually come back, and by that I mean, will I get the whole "I miss you, love you bit?"
2007-02-03 14:40:06 · update #1
Old habits are hard to break. Did you ever consider that maybe you're just too damn tempting for her? It may not be a mind game, but she may have realized after being around you again that it's too hard for her to be around you without things getting physical.
Trust me...it happened to me. That guy was soo tempting that I just couldn't be around him at all...ever....ever ever! Old habits...you know...
2007-02-03 14:45:19 · answer #1 · answered by Chellebelle78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think ex's should stay just that. An ex. If you didn't make enough effort to be faithful the first time around then why give a second chance. You should have been worth the effort before.
2007-02-03 14:54:58 · answer #2 · answered by l'il mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends upon the place they and end there route. I used to work for fed-ex a few year ago, and we might normally go furthest from the shop and work are means in. How close are you to your nearest fed-ex retailer and estimate from there. There is a 50 distance we could power form our store. So if your nearly the store as in 10-quarter-hour i would say just about the evening hours.
2016-08-10 15:01:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a mind game, you're just comfortable territory and as long as you allow her back, she'll just keep on comin....
You break the ties this time, enough is enough! She wants to go out with others so go ahead and be free to date as well, and if you wanna stay single then by all means stay single, and dont give into any urges that are lonliness or lust based....just say your goodbyes and move on hun.....
2007-02-03 15:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she still has strong feelings for you! Maybe the new girls she hooks up with are not like you and she misses that. That's why she still wants you back. But then she starts to remember why you guys broke it off and then she decides to just be friends. What it sounds like to me is that she doesn't know what she wants. She wants her cake and eat it too!
2007-02-03 14:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by lover4ne1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
exs usually come back when they realize that the person they are with now aint you and they see that things are not the way they thought they were going to be
2007-02-03 22:13:42 · answer #6 · answered by misseshodges 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋