i broke up with this boy last week .i told my friends to tell him. do u think he'll forgive me or hate me for life? IM ONLY11 WAT SHOULD I DO?
2007-02-03 14:26:38 · 26 answers · asked by jackiefl01 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just move on. Act like you don't care. I just recently got embarrassed and no one ever talks about it now before they just wanted to see me get embarrassed but now that i dont they stop! And I am 10!
2007-02-03 14:30:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh that's OK. If you're only 11, it will most definately go away.
You guys may end up being best friends or even dating again some time down the road.
When I was in middle school, I dated this guy...he was a lot more popular than me and I really didn't know what he saw in me. We broke up - I brok up with him because I felt really self conscious and overhwlmed around him. This was in 8th grade. About 12th grade, him and I started talking again, it actually got to that because we would laugh about how silly our relationship was.
Another boy I dated in middle school, let's call him Dan. I really liked Dan, but was so immature. He and I dated for exactly one day. I was so nervous after we started dating (not before - beforehand we would talk amnd flirt and all that) that I didn't know how to handle him (he was my first boyfriend). I had my brother (of all people) break up with him for me during school.
We didn't talk again for a while, but eventually became the best of friends. We never did date again, bit our relationship became so much more than that - just years later.
2007-02-03 22:32:44 · answer #2 · answered by Jax 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's a good thing you broke up with this guy. Your way to young to have a boyfriend at 11. He might hate you for a while, but he'll get over it. And anyway, forget about him! Even if he does hate you just don't think about you. And, just be friendly to him. And wait until your 16 to have your next boyfriend.
2007-02-03 22:58:12 · answer #3 · answered by swimmergrl95 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you're upset about this. :( It sounds like you're in a sticky situation. I'm not trying to put you down, and I'm not trying to sound like an "old" adult, but 11 years old is WAY too young to even THINK about having a boyfriend or girlfriend. I totally agree that you may FEEL you're ready for this, but the truth is that an 11-year-old brain is simply not mature enough emotionally to handle a romantic interpersonal relationship. You'll find there's a huge amount of time for that later in life.
Nothing personal -- it's just a fact. NO boy or girl is ready for this at that age. I remember when I was 11, I thought I "knew it all," but boy was I wrong! :) When I read things I wrote when I was 11, it sounds like someone I don't even recognize.
Anyway, good luck working things out. :) And I mean that SINCERELY.
2007-02-03 22:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by scary shari 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hi;
He will forgive you, don't worry about that.
At your age, this isn't really dating. When you graduate high school and then, possibly, college, your relationships will be much more involved and complicated. I would suggest that you try to communicate with him rather than go through your friends, but that's more for older girls. For now, I think it's okay if you were to just say, "My mom/dad said I'm too young to have a steady boyfriend, but if you want to just be friends, that's okay." and put the burden of this decision on them. When you are older, you'll have to accept the weight of your own decisions (like breaking up with a boy because he isn't kind to other people, steals / takes drugs, or dates other girls behind your back...).
The other people who answered that you should have fun are right. You should have a lot of friends, boys and girls. There's no rush.
Now sounds like a good time to start talking with your mom and/or dad about dating and all that stuff.
Have fun,
wayne
2007-02-03 22:53:19 · answer #5 · answered by Wayne 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should have told him yourself. Have a talk with him and then cowboy up and accept the consequences.
You're too young to have a boyfriend anyway. Try being just a kid for the next 5 or 10 years and HAVE FUN!!
2007-02-03 22:30:57 · answer #6 · answered by B. Perky 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
at 11 i don't think a person can truly hate someone for life, he might not like you for a while but i think he'll get over it and if he doesn't he wasn't worth it to begin with. if a guy can't get over rejection he wasn't worth your time. trust me someday you'll find the right guy, just maybe not now.
2007-02-03 22:32:03 · answer #7 · answered by hannah r 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
how about waiting 4-5 years before dating? kids are dating too early these days, dont be in a rush to grow up! when you do, then you'll wonder why you were in such a hurry!
2007-02-03 23:06:44 · answer #8 · answered by wild1tobe 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, if the person you broke up with had any deep feelings for you, he'll resent you, but only for a while, you probably wont talk alot from then on, but nothing more. try not to aggravate him so that there can be peace.
2007-02-03 22:32:02 · answer #9 · answered by Cainis>Lupis 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he'll forget about it next thing you now he'll be dating someone else,,,, just live your life and have fun,,and yea ur tooo young to date anywayz =)
2007-02-03 22:41:35 · answer #10 · answered by Dreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋