I dated a guy for two and a half years. He has my first love and I was his. We have been broken up for a month. I still want things to work but I know that it is important for me to move on with my life. We didn't have a bad break-up and he is a really nice guy. I just feel like I won't ever get over him. I feel like there won't be anyone like him. I miss everything about him. Any advice is welcomed!
2007-02-03 14:10:42 · 9 answers · asked by ambrosius15 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Concentrate on other things in your life, school, family, friends, anything to keep your mind off of getting back with him. Only time can take the pain away so in the mean time just occupy all ur time. And maybe, if he sees that you've moved on he might want you back, ppl always want what they cant have
2007-02-03 15:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there and the only thing I can say is that the first love is ALWAYS the hardest. It took me a lot of tears (nearly drove my mother crazy) I was hurting and thinking a lot of this guy and I didn't think I would EVER get over him. To be honest, I thought I would be with him for ever. There were times I wanted to call and realized I won't Anyways, time was one thing I know helped me, spent time with friends (good distraction) I went and got myself a job to keep busy and at night well, my mom was there for me when I needed her. I hope this helps?
2007-02-03 22:19:05 · answer #2 · answered by ********* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you get over your first love? You dont ever get over it...you just swallow it slow and whole...no matter how painful it is.
You have to know how to accept the pain, then you can learn how to live life with the pain....of course you cant forget...its something you shouldnt forget...It hurst to remember, but if you think back...you should honor those precious moments by keeping them deep within you...its those times that shouldnt be thrown away...
And for sure, you will find someone out there...not exactly like your ex...but maybe better or much more unique...he was special...but loads of other people are too...you just have to stop and see to know...
Do more activities with your friends, get on the net and make new ones...try to get back with your family...and start a new...heartbreaks are bad... but maybe its for the better...
2007-02-03 22:18:54 · answer #3 · answered by rhea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may never get over your first love. Figure out what you liked in him and look for those qualities in others. Don't jump into another exclusive relationship. Try to go out with friends, guys and gals, and have fun for a while on your own. Keeping a journal about your feelings might help.
2007-02-03 22:16:14 · answer #4 · answered by B. Perky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not easy, i went thru this same thing also, i was pining over him for over a year but i later realize that it just wasnt meant to be. You will later get over him if u put ur mind to it. My ex is also a friend now, he's not really a bad guy. So i definately think u can get over it
2007-02-03 22:15:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just takes time. It probably took me about 4 months to stop feeling just horrible, and then quite a while longer to move on, but you never really forget.
2007-02-03 22:19:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give your self some time. I just broke up with some one I thought was my soul mate about one year ago and i gave myself sometime. And now i have found someone that treats me better.
2007-02-03 22:17:22 · answer #7 · answered by babyangel81981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously derz sumbdy better if u broke up, u need to go and explore cuz ders sumbdy fo everyone even de ugly freakaleeks...and if u got one guy u can get another...and dont go bak to him even if a little thing is wrong wit him cuz ppl dont change when u want dem to
2007-02-03 22:14:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can get over him only if you think you can.believe in urself,know ur better.and just be friends for now.
2007-02-03 22:23:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋