Im 35 and been diagnosed with bipolar disorder 2 yrs ago. Im not on meds they make me tired I have been married 14 years but separated 3 times, 1 yr each 3 yrs this time currently. he moved 3 states away we have 2 kids 5 and 12. I have a problem with his weight he put on alot he is 6' 2" 330lbs, he doesnt clean up after himself and has to be right sometimes even in front of thr kids. He is loving affectionate hardworking not abusive or drinker or smoker and a good dad I cheated on him several times and he still wants me back he loves me and i love him I am not sure I want to be with him forever. He knows i am bipolar and he said he will stand by me no matter what. We have just started talking again about getting 2gether. The guy Ive been dating seriously the three months wanted to marry me and then I got pregnant and he wanted to speed things up i want a baby but unsure I can deal with disorder he knows this i want an abort i dont luv him yet but miss him bad I dont know what to do?
2007-02-03 13:59:54 · 7 answers · asked by ms_sweet_real 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you need to get quiet and go inside and see what your instincts and your gut are telling you.
sounds like you are confused and the only way to find your path again is to write, journal, get the confusion on paper and look at what your gut is telling you.
talk to your counselor. be honest and your answers will come.
2007-02-03 14:09:44 · answer #1 · answered by maggiemae821 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My family individuals has a solid history of bipolar illness. i be attentive to for a actuality that many individuals of my family individuals could be outraged by his utilising this illness as an excuse. Bipolar could be taken care of, and individuals with the illness might desire to be taken care of on an equivalent enjoying field. His affair grew to become into some thing that got here approximately, and if he would be unable to cope or alter, you will possibly desire to not shrink him any slack for this. I forgave an affair to boot, some years in the past. If his coronary heart is into fixing the concern and in no way repeating this errors lower back, then forgiveness is unquestionably a probability.
2016-09-28 09:38:14 · answer #2 · answered by celia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a very selfish and mean person. I'm not saying you are but you are coming off that way.You don't want your husband because he is to boring for you,you want someone who takes control and won't let you walk all over him.If you don't watch out you will be alone with no one to turn to not even your kids and I think you are doing the right thing by aborting the fetus. Do not believe anyone who tells you not to abort and they will take it or help you raise it.W hen it comes time for the help they promise you they are no where to be found.
2007-02-03 14:27:14 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like my ex-husband. The only reason he kept taking me back was because he could use my past transgressions to control me. Face it kiddo, you have babies who need you!
If you are *not sure* you want to spend forever with him, then you DON'T. Your subconscience is telling you to let him go.
Also, I am very familiar with bipolar disorder. The meds will only make you tired until you get used to them. It's imperative to get a doctor who knows this illness well and get properly medicated. Who's going to take care of your children the next time you get manic and cheat?
2007-02-03 14:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to be on medication for this even though it makes you tired or try a new medication for it. This will help even out your moods .... You arelaly need to go back to your husband if at all possible and try to work on and save your marriage. DO NOT abort the baby... If you cannot handle the baby talk to me and i will raise it for you if need be... People also would love to adopt your baby as well that cannot have a baby. DO NOT kill the baby PLEASE!!!!
2007-02-03 14:14:37 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End the relationship, keep the baby....you can't handle both!
2007-02-03 14:07:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your damn med's and stop the bull crap for your kidds and husband i know i was with a women just like you take the meds!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-03 15:01:06 · answer #7 · answered by banesbrew002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋