im very sorry to ask this but have u ever had a love one a friend or some one u know kill them selves?! i just had 5 friends in the last 3 years take ther lives and they had such futures ahead of them. and the worst part is that they didnt even leave a note and say why they did it ...i think that was the hardest for me ...them not leaving a note. U DONT HAVE TO ANSWER IF U DONT WANT TO I DONT WANT TO MAKE U UPSET OR HURT ABOUT ANSWERING IT .
2007-02-03 13:52:52 · 13 answers · asked by pabytaw2 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
and my condolances to those who have lost love ones!
2007-02-03 13:57:56 · update #1
and my condolances to those who have lost love ones!
2007-02-03 13:57:58 · update #2
Many years ago a friend of mine brother killed himself and did not leave a note. He always seemed so happy and up and it was a real shock to the whole family and to me when he did it. I’ll never forget the funeral; it was the most awful thing I have ever been to. So filled with lose and despair and no hope. I hope I never have to attend another one of those. I can’t imagine you going through that five times! Wow, what has that done to you? Suicide is such a selfish thing.
2007-02-03 14:06:50 · answer #1 · answered by G. H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is how I lost my best friend. To this day, 15 years later, I still have a hard time accepting it. She got her hair cut the day before she killed herself, which doesn't sound like the actions of someone that is planning on suicide. There is no doubt she did kill herself though. It just surprises me how sudden it was. She left behind a 4 year old son (my nephew) and he has been through hell and back over this. Suicide is the most selfish act there is. Don't feel bad if you get upset with the person, it's perfectly normal. For them not to leave a note either indicates they were male (most males don't) or it was just a rash decision. Hang in there. Time heals.
2007-02-03 14:00:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Barbie19 the reason why people say horrible things is because they are fed up of teens getting pregnant and ruining their lives. You can go so far with your life and do so much instead you got pregnant. No one should have children unless they have a education, career, money saved in the bank, ther own home, a proper husband or boyfriend who will be ther for u and u know would be a good dad, also if u ar over 20, lived ur life to the fullest and u and ur partner is ready to have children. Babies shouldnt be accidents, they should actually be wanted. If u dont have those things i mentioned above and u hav a child u will struggle financially, emotionally and physically, u wont have no more freedom and u will hav a lot of responsibility, babies take up so much time, money and energy and a child having a child is disgusting to some people. A lot of teens go on benefits and welfare as well so they bring a child into this world and use peoples tax money to bring it up which is so unfair. Yes some of the things people say like ''go and die'' is harsh and is going too far but u need to ignore that. Its not because they arent getting enough sex or jelouse that people younger then them ar having sex its because teens can be irresponsible and they wont bother using protection properly which then leads to getting sexually transmitted diseases and getting pregnant and ther goes ther lifes down the drain. I havent had sex yet and im 17 and im not jelouse that others ar having sex younger then me i promise u im not, I dont care if people have sex under my age just as long as they dont get pregnant and bring a child into this world and not bring it up properly and then the child has a crap life and gets pregnant young too. I havent found the right person yet to have sex with and wen i do i will be careful as i dont want a baby, it will ruin all my plans in life. I dont actually know if ur pregnant or not but i hope u be a good mum if u ar planning to keep ur child and that ur ther for u child, support it, do everything properly, that u know who the father is and he is also a part of the childs life and u make sure u giv ur baby a comfortable, safe, secure life. bye and good luck.
2016-03-29 03:50:04 · answer #3 · answered by Mary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I've been there. I had a cousin who committed suicide when I was a little kid as well as my boyfriend of 3 years. I didn't know he was unhappy and I still haven't got over it. It was 12 years ago. I'm so very sorry for your losses.
2007-02-03 13:57:15 · answer #4 · answered by ketchikan_chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have 2 uncles that killed them selves one of them i was too young to know the other one slit his throat on a park bench and right now my other uncle is in the hospital for the third time in the last 2 months
2007-02-03 13:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After battling depression for years my husbands close childhood friend and next door neighbor hung himself with a bed sheet.
2007-02-03 14:35:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend that I had just started to talk to and we were going to start dating kill himself...his mom had just had a baby and the day they came home from the hospital he killed himself
2007-02-03 13:58:10 · answer #7 · answered by baby shih tzu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've known of a few in the last several years, but I didn't know them personally.
2007-02-03 13:56:13 · answer #8 · answered by kitten lover3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Dad took his own life. Like you he did not leave a note. I was the one who found him.
2007-02-03 14:04:17 · answer #9 · answered by APACHE 7 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness! No, i've never had that happen to me. But i am so so so so so so so so sorry that you had to go through something like and 5 times no less.
2007-02-03 13:57:33 · answer #10 · answered by Future Top Chef 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋