Well, I'm not planing to do it until after marriage, but I just wanted to know, does it hurt and do you always bleed on your first time?
I'm just curious.
2007-02-03 13:11:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're very smart. Sorry though, I can't help.
2007-02-03 13:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I remember having some pain, after awhile it did feel good,
yes there was some bleeding. and I was very sore for about 4 days do I wish I had waited no. I was moving and knew that
we would never see each other again. I never wanted to
forget him. Just last sep. He got back in touch with me.
he said he was Iraq, So we are friends now again .after 24 years. He will be home next week. We still love each other.
2007-02-03 22:23:45 · answer #2 · answered by Krissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it really depends on the woman. It hurt for me (and I bled) but some women are different. If you are lucky, then it will be easy and not painful. But do not worry if you bleed a little, that is normal. Good for you for waiting for after marriage.
2007-02-03 21:16:20 · answer #3 · answered by bluefairy421 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does hurt a little, especially if you're all tensed up and yes you usually do bleed but not very much. It's actually a beautiful thing if it's with the right person so don't hurry it along, you will know when the time is right and don't do it for anyone but yourself.
2007-02-03 21:16:32 · answer #4 · answered by Mustang Sally 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you do bleed the first time and it is painful, but the blood and the pain will eventually go away after a while. I don't plan to do it until after marriage too.
2007-02-03 21:15:33 · answer #5 · answered by PrettyEyes 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We honey to be honest it depends on the man you are with. If you are ready and he is very gentle it can be a great experience. However the next day you will be very sore for a day or so. And yes it will hurt if he is not gentle enough during your first time. there is a layer of skin that has to break in order to take your viginity so there may be a bit of blood but that is normal. Take care Heather
2007-02-03 21:15:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If your partner is slow and takes his time it should not hurt that much. As for bleeding it is to be expected but usually very little.
2007-02-03 21:18:38 · answer #7 · answered by myvote01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so glad you are going to wait until you are married i didn't and i really regret it so bad. When you are really in love no it doesn't hurt but you may bleed a little but you don't understand when you really love someone it doesn't matter. Stay Strong
2007-02-03 21:18:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hm..it's not tat bad. Hurts a little n bleeds a little. Don't worry too much.
2007-02-03 21:15:04 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurt for me but no bleeding, but then I learn how much fun it can be.
2007-02-03 21:15:37 · answer #10 · answered by tracystokes3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't hurt or bleed, but I think that everyone is different.
2007-02-03 21:14:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋