and in the dreams I like it - I love fondeling their breasts but I do not ever do oral. I have a habit of looking at girls when i'm out doing daily things and judging if I think there pretty or not. But I think all girls do this. Does this make me bi? Do other women do this?
2007-02-03 13:10:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You are bi-curious. I've explored women. we are beautiful, sensitive creatures.
2007-02-03 13:14:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Do you mind hearing this from a man? I think you sound pretty straight. Dreams dont have any definate meaning so that theory is out. I think looking at other women is something all of you (women) do. You look at each other in a judging way and you all know it. I'm not saying thats good or bad....it's kinda cool. I guess your making some sort of assesment about what clothes they have on or how much they paid for their purse, or better yet....the old "she wears too much eyeliner" comment. If you have to ask about being bi?....your probably not bi at all.
2007-02-03 22:21:16 · answer #2 · answered by BudLt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I want to be straight forward with you. Homosexuality is constructed. Often innoscently by many children. Children forget the experiances they had as small children. They still construct themselves from those experiances.
First understand homosexualality is constructed, just like hetrosexuality is constructed.
The Formula For Constructing A Homosexual
This formula can be illustrated in this way: A Predisposition
Toward Homosexuality Plus That First Homosexual Experience
Multiplied By Pleasurable and Positive Homosexual Thoughts
To Which Is Added More Homosexual Experiences Multiplied By More Pleasurable Thoughts Constructs A Homosexual.
The Formula For constructing A Hetrosexual
This formula can be illustrated in this way: A Predisposition
Toward hetrosexuality Plus That First Hetrosexual Experience
Multiplied By Pleasurable and Positive Hetrosexual Thoughts
To Which Is Added More Hetrosexual Experiences Multiplied By
More Pleasurable Thoughts Constructs A Hetrosexual
Once you see that this is how it happened and really understand it, it becomes your choice to work with it. I was 40 before i understood this. I was homosexual scince i could remember. Then I prayed and the memmory of when i first experianced homosexuality came to me, and I could understand how it was constructed.
It would be hard to understand this if you can not remember your first experiance, but you could still understand this.
A coulpe of good sights for you to read if you want help overcoming the homosexuality in you. First I want to say, it could take years or it could take less time, everyone is different. Check out the sights below, they may help.
http://www.ilovejesus.com/befree/pnartic...
http://www.ccel.org/contrib/exec_outline...
I would like to say the christian prospective does not talk about gender nonconformity. It can be a predisposition to homosexuality. Not all children that had a gender nonconformity will construct homosexuality. so it is not the leading or only predisposition to homosexuality. Expermenting, being drawn into expermenting all usually are the predisposition, even name calling can be part of the predispositioning to constructing homosexuality. Not all children that construct homosexuality have gender nonconformity.
As i say it is often innoscently constructed, then as an adult we learn it was not the plan of God. God we know planned us to construct hetrosexuality, but our choices may lead us in another direction for God to use in our plan That he has for us. Everything is the power of god.
Let me leave you with this in mind:
"AND SUCH WERE SOME OF YOU. But you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus and by the Spirit of our God." (1 Co 6:11)
Learning to seek God, and walking by the Spirit of God is what I am doing now, and there is no shame, just learning.
2007-02-04 03:38:20 · answer #3 · answered by ishelp4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are 2 worlds. The fantasy one and the real one.
The fantasy worlds are pretty cool to visit, but it is vastly different to live in, much like the online chat rooms are for.
Do you prefer being with women over men?
I think it is a bi-curious thing.
Try going to a Yahoo Chat room for bisexual women. Start chatting. Maybe you can find someone else that feels the same and perhaps you can realize your fantasy for what it is worth.
2007-02-04 00:23:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had sexual dreams of girls, and some fantasies, and if it happens I come into play with that, then it does, but I'm focused on men right now. I get a little Bi-Curious, which is probably your situation.
Krazy Libra
2007-02-03 21:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this doesn't make you bi but it could mean that you are definitely curious...I was curious for years before having a real life encounter...it was better then my dreams....only you will truly know what you want and maybe it will take a long time to make that discovery or maybe even tonight...who knows anything can happen given the right circumstances.....but until then keep having fun in your dreams.
2007-02-03 22:23:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
no i never have dreams where i like fondeling another girls breast, but sometimes i say a girl is pretty, and you're only bi if you chose to be, and i know i'm a straight as a ruler!
2007-02-03 21:16:14 · answer #7 · answered by seasons.change.but.people.dont 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I love sex dreams. I recently had one about a guy who i would just love to sleep with but i can't because he's straight! It was really good. It made me over sleep and I was late for work though but it was worth it!
2007-02-03 22:03:28 · answer #8 · answered by qdeezy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think not because you are just looking and nothing is going to happen when you just look at something. And ya lots of other women do this.
2007-02-03 23:45:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes you curious not Bi.I've had fantasys about a woman suckin my breasts n lickin me...........I dont go lookin at women though.
2007-02-06 18:34:29 · answer #10 · answered by shorty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋