Is it ok to be "underdeveloped"?

Question

I am in grade 6 and all of the other girls i know have boobs and wear victorias secret underwear. I don't have a mom and i don't feel comfortable asking my dad about this stuff. Will i ever grow boobs?

Answer 1

Yes, everything in its time... don't worry and quit comparing yourself to others. You are your own person.

Answer 2

Don't worry about any of that stuff.You are young and you have a lot of time on your hands.Some day you will grow boobs,and wear all
the fancy things the younger ladies are wearing right now.My mother had a friend who daughter who grew boobs at the age of nine believe it or not.I'm a guy and I didn't hit puberty until I was 13,14 years old.Now I'm 22 and I don't have a mustache yet,and a lot of the guys that I grew up with, starting growing beards at the age of
13,which I think is gross for a young boy at that age.Anyways there is nothing wrong with being "underdeveloped"as you put it in words.

Answer 3

You will. Girls are trying to be so much older than they are now. Victorias Secret in 6th grade? You have got to be kidding me - I can barely afford it and I'm 25.

You will eventually develop and it's OK not to have at this point. Whatever you do, don't use your body to try and fit in. Your body is the only thing that is yours. Everything else can be taken away. Once you begin to abuse your body, you will lose respect for yourself and lose the respect of others.

I'm not trying to sound all preachy, but I worried alot about looking pretty and being liked in middle school/high school and it caused me to do some things that I now wish I never would have done. It did not give me what I was looking for.

Don't worry about Victoria's Secret or your breast size. Worry about doing things that will help you in the long run - school does not last forever.

Answer 4

People will develop at thier own speed, don't worry about it when i was in sixth grd my boobs were the biggest in comparison to all the other girls and i was like taller too. I felt so wierd but now that I'm older (8th grd) i feel much better now cause everyone is catching up and i'm much more comfortable in my own body. So don't sweat it! Just worry about your grades and more important things. But do take care of yourself, cause the better you treat ur body the better it'll look. If ur afraid to talk to ur dad talk to an aunte or Grandmother,or older freind. Even ur school nurse. I know it's lame but ... you know. Victoria secret underwear doesn't really do anything(fyi)!

Answer 5

The little girls in grade 6 who shop at Victoria's Secret are little whores.
No offense to them, but Victoria's Secret's items are too racy for 6th graders.
And of course you'll grow boobs.

Answer 6

Number one You are still real young. Listen I'm 5'11" tall but when I was 19 I was only 4'10" so don't think you have stopped growing. And let me tell you, boobs don't make the woman. I'm sorry about your mother I'm sure your father loves you. He knows he has a daughter. And he knows that girls have different needs. Why don't you talk to him and see what he thinks and feels. Tell him how you feel. I think he will meet you half way.

You will always be his little girl. Tell him you need his help to be a woman. Make breakfast tomorrow morning, and get the ball rolling.

I wish you the best

Answer 7

You are still young so don't worry about this too much. Some girls just develop earlier than others. This does not make them any better than you.

The most important thing right now for you is to do well in school, be a good girl, stay out of trouble, and have fun just being a kid.

Your breast will grow naturally on their own so don't worry about it.

Answer 8

Lol. I used to think the same thing in the 6th grade. Dont worry love, you'll get them. Not to say that you are going to have 38 DDD's but I'm most certain that they will be just right for you. And this thing about Vickie's Secret... Why cant you wear them now? You know that there are adult women with smaller breast and VS caters to them also. So look online for something cute that fits you. Of course you would be browsing the A-cup section, but thats just for now love.

Answer 9

Yes you'll get them. Girl's develop at different times and some will end up with bigger ones than other girls, and different shapes as well. That's why there are all types and sizes of bras. Whatever kind you get, when you do get them, are going to be fine because they are yours, and that's all that matters.

If you want, then you can always ask your dad to take you to get a training bra, just so that you can be ready for when you do start to develop.

Answer 10

I don't have large boobs either. But it's totally fine. Our media has been pressuring girls to be hypethin, and to have cantaloupes on your chest. If you have them, good, if you don't, it's also fine. Breasts are only one part of us, they do not define us as women or personalities. Love the size you have, since anything else will look fake (believe me, breast implants are only a hassle, and they look fake especially if you're thin.) Your breasts will still grow, but don't worry about what people think. If they tell you your breasts are small, tell them that if they want breasts they should get their own!

Answer 11

First of all people who brag about their underwear are losers so don't listen to them. And second of all, of course you'll grow boobs! But don't forget the bigger they are as you're younger, the more they sag as your older! So don't worry one bit! + your only in 6th GRADE i bet the girls boobs are FAKE!!! lol maybe or maybe not but don't worry!