I've been dumped by two black guys and all I did was give give give. Was I just used? I've noticed these movies where a black man has a white g/f and she acted as his slave. I've also heard this was a stereotype "black men only lust after white women and will fall in real love with only black women"
2007-02-03 12:54:01 · 21 answers · asked by lalala 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
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2007-02-03 13:04:28 · update #1
I've yet to meet a black man that actually PREFERS white women. They all want black women. Problem is, they dont always find ones that live up to their high standards, or feel like the chase, and white women are very easy to get (so I've been told). My hubby said when he used to date white women (pre: finding me) he was embarassed to be out with them, and wouldnt take them anywhere. His Dad also said he used to date them back in England and only used them for sex (yes, he told us this!). The black guys that I went to high school with back in the day just used them to get new clothes and shoes. So the answer to your question is... no. You people need to stop flattering yourselves!!
2007-02-04 14:04:55 · answer #1 · answered by SassyC 2 · 5⤊ 5⤋
I am so sorry about what you going through. I really do no think it is a color thing. there are black men out there just to use everybody not just black ,but all colors of man. I think there is just the good ones and the bad ones. Maybe you should start really taking what these guys say and do into consideration, like on a date , at home , how they treat their family. their actions will tell on them quick, so you won't have to waste time or feel used, and remember this never , never, never, ever ,ever spend money on a man unless you are married to him, even then wait a year,the 1 anniversity. If a man loves you, and he got some bout, bout his self he would not be asking for money or anything else
2007-02-03 14:45:42 · answer #2 · answered by shiningstarr32 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think they are lust for white woman because they *black men* are more sensitive than the white ones, I think you can't judge a whole race for 2 guys... I mean... what if you get dumped by 4 whites or latinos?? so will you think that whites or latinos used you? no, you would think that this is just bad luck with guys... I think you should keep trying if you really preffer black men.
2007-02-05 22:43:45 · answer #3 · answered by Fatima 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you were used, and they probably are not doing it because you are white they are doing it because you let them. Black men can and do fall in love with non black women but it sounds as if you are messing with pathetic little boys
2007-02-03 14:06:42 · answer #4 · answered by micheleh29 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That's just Hollywood with the movies thing. I know men tend to go for someone lighter than another, which I don't get, but people have different taste, and not everyone goes off looks.
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2007-02-03 13:37:04 · answer #5 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not all black men lust after white women, and not all black men who has white girl friends treat them like slaves. ive met some who were, but thats only because they let them. if you hadnt been giving so much, u wouldnt have gotten dumped. thats with any man. not just a black man.
2007-02-03 12:59:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
i don't think so i just think you are dating the wrong ones. Because most of the black guys(35-45) that i see dating white girls are fat and ugly basicly the ones that actual white guys don't want. and the movies you see are just that JUST MOVIES because i know blacks guys that don't like black girls and never has they've always dated white,mexican,asian ect just not black girls and i have alot of half white family members.
2007-02-06 14:25:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt be saying black men because everyone doesnt care about race (the outside) its all about the inside to some. As for what u said, yeah a lot of things potray them as this type but who are those people to represent a whole race of people?
2007-02-03 12:58:32 · answer #8 · answered by Rosado 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
It's actually the other way around. Don't be so giving. That's with any race that you date. People will take advantage of your kindness. There are too many peckers in the sea, to take crap from just one. I know many mixed couples that are happy with children. Be more selective.
2007-02-03 13:15:27 · answer #9 · answered by kayjay 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Black men will go after anything (white, brown, asian) but that stanky stuff!
2007-02-03 13:21:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋