I been in many relationships.. (more than 40) good and bad and from every time I had a relationship even if got my heart broken or I broke someone else's heart I felt I had learn something new and had helped me in some way to become a better person..
but in my curent relationship he never even had a female friend and he is very unexperince on how you should be in a relationship.. he is doing many things wrong and yet I know he is very in love with me based on his actions rather his words.. and I do too...
but I been thinking if he get a bet more experince maybe it will help us build a better and much stronger relationship that may last forever...
I need to know if you would let him/her get experince if you were in my situation?
P.S. he is 26 and I am 22 and no I don't meant our sex life I meant relationship
2007-02-03 12:44:14 · 10 answers · asked by Holy 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I love him very much and I really want things to work out for us to keep us together and let him be my last and I want to do anything to help us build a strong relationship ..
and yes experince is good if you are woman or man who has still save her self for the guy who she will say "I do"
2007-02-03 13:02:31 · update #1
If he is rough on the edges he will remain rough. Ask if you can go to a counselor on relationships to see if you can work on these. IF not use positive words such as I love when you open the door for me.
Or It make sme happpy when you include me in a decisions, I feel much more secure....
However, most likely if he has no social graces that will not change, you can never change someone.
2007-02-03 12:54:18 · answer #1 · answered by Cy Gold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Experience is the best teacher, but it does not seem to be working in your situation. I sense that you are so close to this person that your emotions are clouding your vision.
Do keep in mind, some people just are not capable, or fearful of relationships. If this keeps up, I would really get out and get on with your life.
Let your experience lead you to someone who has similar interests and can have concern for your unique ones.
2007-02-03 12:53:15 · answer #2 · answered by jimmaresa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than 40 relationships by 22???? Are you trying to go pro? This has to be a joke question. You obviously don't know what a relationship is. You can't have a relationship every 2-3 months...that's just casual dating, honey. Relationships take years.
Also, there is a "check spelling" button on the upper right hand corner. Please use it.
2007-02-03 12:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What exactly is he doing wrong? You are not going to change him this is who he is so you either have to accept this or move on. By the way maybe this has something to do with you 40 + relationships seems very excessive to me especially for person your age. I think maybe the problem is you are never happy with anyone.
2007-02-03 12:50:20 · answer #4 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you have had 40 relationships at age 22, id let him get some of that experience. suggest he tie a board across his butt so he doesnt fall in.
2007-02-03 13:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, just because he has been in less relationships than you doesn't mean anyhting.
And what you consider wrong not everyone would consider wrong.
it's a matter onf prospective.
2007-02-03 12:52:53 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can too much experience be a downfall on your end? Maybe it's many things that you are judging him to be wrong on.
2007-02-03 12:56:21 · answer #7 · answered by apple juice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I second Lori K's thoughts.
2007-02-03 13:14:35 · answer #8 · answered by Ace Librarian 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well , you yourself can answer this one!
Damn your relationships.
2007-02-03 12:47:12 · answer #9 · answered by Phlow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Indeed it is.
2007-02-03 12:51:19 · answer #10 · answered by robert m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋