My mom is a crack head help??? seriously?

Question

no serious my mother drinks, smokes weed, I am 23yr she kicked me out at 15 cause i didnt want to procestute...I told her about herself...I had a child at 16 She called social services + police and tried to get the dad done for under age sex...then had my son took of me with a load of lies at 16 i didnt have the maturity to fight for him (WRONG I KNOW BUT I AM WORKING ON THAT!! NOW) I just ran out of energy ( you dont know me so please dont tallk about my son)...So anyway I got myself a good job social services was studying working and also bringing up my second child..all by myself...She got jealous or something as i am doing well for myself 3,000 new setter 2,000 new plasma 600 surround sound car, good job...etc....something that beats her bottle of vodka any day....anyway she kicked my 15yr old bro out and told me to leave him to the streets i told her 2 f off im not doing that 2hiim as she did it 2me i had to sleep on the streets wen i was 15 cause of her..around all sorts...

so i took my brother in then called her and asked her to help out with a little money she then called the police and said i was harrsing her!!! she then shipped him to usa...for 2mnths while schools on then brought him back...she called my employer and told them i take drugs and loads of rubbish and my boss's boss to make sure i lost my job...what can i do i mean she is not right there is so much she has done to me there is not enough room to say it all here....she is very nasty

I mean i lived with my bf when i was 18 she told me to move in with her as he was no good which he wasnt but we did love each other and everyone saw that!!! she took all my things in car tv...loads of personal things i started a new job then she locked me out the house i was sleeping on the streets again for 2 nights intill a stranger took me nearly lost my job but i stuck in there and kept it and she still doing it to me now at 23....and im worried as she already made me lose one son over all this as i got tired of fighting i am older now and i know all her games she couldnt do anything with my second son...but she is trying and its hard enough i am very proud of myself single mom i own my own online shop work study and look after my son but she is making it so hard...on purpose i have no family at all not even one just 15 yr brothers

i dont take drugs or drink i am very settled for my age i like working and raising my son i dont even go clubbing and i dont keep friends really as look how my mother is do you think i can trust a stranger

I am thinking about going to the local newspaper...will the print someting like this...as i would like to embarrss her like she has done to me and the pain i have had to go threw as a child etc...and she is still doing...seriously she is a drunk and a drugy i wish she would die and i have told her i would spit on her grave every time i try to help the drunk she cause such big problems that was the best job of my life social services for the suffolk county and she rung around my boss i was enrolled for 4 courses and my NVQ 3 this year imagine a single mom you wouldnt believe the amount i have achieved from the back ground i have had and she did everything to take it ....but you know what even though i sound down and i am going to send her the link to this question so she can read others views i will get another job as i will be a better mom to my son and not low life like her

i keep crying i can see how someone normal people slip under and life a bad life... i dont want to be like my mother but she is dragging me down so much why....i sound down yes but when my son wakes up he reminds me what life is all about and to push my hurt and troubles aside and show him what my mother never showed me thats love and a rightous life to my best ability...WHY IS THE UK SO MESSED UP i honestly dont trust anyone in life not even with myt deepiest secrets....who is there to trust other than ME

Answer 1

Have her taped on phone get a restraining order.Have the judge do a drug test on her.You keep away from her

Answer 2

Oh how sorry I am for your. I thought I could help with lots of things but am sooooooo afraid to give you wrong advice. I will give you the very best wishes I possibly can and sincerely hope someone out there can give you good, proper constructive advice. If you still feel alone PLEASE post again and ask for me you will see the name I go under as I will never leave you alone but at this moment consider I am not authoritive enough to give you proper help Sincerely very best wishes for a happy, happy peaceful future.

Answer 3

You sound like a person with a wonderful caring heart. I am so sorry your mother has all these problems. I am not sure what you can do. I wonder if Oprah would be interested in your story. I think you are a survivor and a good role model. God bless you.

Answer 4

Im so sorry to here this, but you should get here busted then that would teach here a lesson and maybe an intervention would put here into to rehab for awhile to dry out.

As for you and your brother you should get together with him and call social services for help on what should take place.

Good luck and God bless

Answer 5

Whoa.. You really have a serious issue there.. I would get myself wired and have this all documented on tape. At least get her to say those things around someone you can use as a witness.. Good luck!

Answer 6

try calling FRANK for all drug related advice. www.talktofrank.com

Answer 7

kill her. seriously. (forced drug overdose would work i think)