The thing is, is that they really arn't that much alike so i don't know why i like one and not the other but ne ways they both are really nice girls and i like them both and i can sort of tell that they might like me but i don't know for sure. so i sort of want to know how i could tell if one really does.
2007-02-03 12:37:20 · 13 answers · asked by trick_fin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ok, the first thing you need to do is figure out which one you are willing to go after before you waste your time figuring out girls becuase you never will. When you figure out which one is more worth your time, then you can jump. By that I mean that you can put all your effort into impressing her and finding out how she feels about you. Don't play a game with two different girls, that can only lead to hurt. No one likes to feel like a second choice so don't put anyone in that kind of position.
2007-02-03 12:41:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, how are you? With your question that is a very hard call but we all have a heart and you can't control your heart you mentioned that you like one and not the other as more than a friend I take it but it's not that you don't like the other girl, you do but just as a friend and the other girl you must really like her, if you melt around her and just can't wait till the next time you see her then she is the one. You must always, always follow your heart because if you don't and go do what your heart is not comfy with just let me tell ya it's never going to work. So you tell me who is the right girl for you, you know the right answer to that and if your worried about the other girls feelings she'll be fine if she is a good friend well she should be happy with the choice you make and support you and if she can't well then she's not much of a friend now is she, so you can decide what to do on that one.
Just listen to your heart there is no other way to go. Good luck and take care. Chow!
2007-02-03 12:50:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a good question but you don't seem very motivated in finding out, asking is one way to find out but here's what you're missing, you said the chicks weren't really that much alike, so you need to find out what you want in and from a chick, you need to decide which one you like the most and be proactive -- don't sit around and be chosen -- you have 2 prospects figure out which is best for you and take action --- just like a job -- 2 companies are interested in you which one do you choose, the one who you think wants you the most or the one who you feel is best for you -- may be wrong, or it may be the move you've ever made in your life ------ chicks are no different, just b/c one may like you better than the other doesn't mean she's the best one for you
2007-02-03 12:59:22 · answer #3 · answered by Big Rob II 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well lets see here. OH this brings back memories for me. Well i would try what i did so see who really liked me. I had the two boys do things. Like on Valentines day they would write cards or sit next to me at lunch. But i would follow your heart the same thing happened to me. Listen take the time and relaxe listen to ur heart.
2007-02-03 12:58:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take each out for coffee. Pretend that you had a secret romance with a person who went out of town and have been kind of depressed since then. That you are ready to move on now and trust their advice. Tell each that they are the first persons you have found yourself attracted to since X left town and you aren;t sure where to go.. If you can fake tears, do so.
Chicks love to play the supportive friend and potential savior. Whichever one falls for it most will be the one to choose.
OR.. better yet, both fall for it and bang, two chicks!
2007-02-03 12:43:52 · answer #5 · answered by Neo Tarantula 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it depends on how they act. Some girls try to act hard to get because they don't want to seem too desperate. Others are all over you. Take a chance!! If you really think in your heart of hearts that they like you, choose the one YOU like most, we do like it when guys are brave enough to ask!!
2007-02-03 12:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by Yay me!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 05:05:13 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask them put not at the some time. If they say no but they studier that means they like you and if they both like you and you don't know which one to pick think which one you liked first!
2007-02-03 12:42:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key is communication ask these girls if they like you
2007-02-03 12:40:16 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will only find that out if you talk to them and ask how they feel towards you
2007-02-03 12:40:46 · answer #10 · answered by glowing flair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋