He's been up there forever and thats all he does all the time..And I am bored..
2007-02-03 12:11:51 · 15 answers · asked by Mandy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well it would all depend. If his hobby is playing games on the computer or other things that are not going to hurt your relationship then let him do what he wants to do. You might want to suggest to him that you would like to spend more time with him. Do not nag him into not going on the computer it will just make matters worse and he will be very upset that you are taking him away from his hobby. You should try to find a hobby yourself or make more friends. If he is doing something wrong like looking at porn or doing other things that can jeopardize your relationship then you need to tell him to either stop that or leave him.
2007-02-03 13:37:57 · answer #1 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a problem if you are feeling left out and neglected as a result of it. Perhaps you can find something to do in there with him while he's on the computer. You should definitely talk to him about it. Bored wives, become desperate wives and that's not good for anyone.
2007-02-03 12:31:20 · answer #2 · answered by dakirk123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there something on the computer that's has his attention time you found out ,is he working? When you find out then you wont be bored any longer.Walk in and see if he closes the program ,ask him whats he doing.Be prepared for the worst then it won't be a surprise.
Best of luck hope it works out for you
2007-02-03 12:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thre may be something wrong if he is putting this above you and you marraige.. He may be having affairs online. Talk to him and ask him why he does this all the time... Get on the computer when he is not home and see what you find on there. See what happens when you walk in the room when he is on the pc and see how he reacts or what he does or if he tries to hide something.
2007-02-03 12:23:04 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 06:10:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what he is doing. If he is doing something constructive and innocent , then you should be able to sit with him and share his time. If he keeps looking over his shoulder, you can BET he is up to no good! You have every right to know what he is being so secretive about. The Net can be a very bad and perverted tool. I feel for you. Just remember, you are not second rate!
2007-02-03 13:41:33 · answer #6 · answered by CindyLou 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think guys emersing themselves in the computer is the same as them busying themselves in the garage. It's their own space. If you think he's up to no good (and your gut feeling is usually right), then record his activities to check out later. If you feel left out . . request time outs. If he's not responsive .. . get a 2nd computer and surf at the same time. Best options I can think of . . been there.
2007-02-03 12:31:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know its not the answer you want. You bore him girl...otherwise he'd be spending more time with you. Use some creative thinking and I bet you can get his attention. hint hint! Good luck.
2007-02-03 12:22:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
That sucks! Make him get off the computer and do something together!
2007-02-03 12:15:57 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Try pouring water on it. That should do the trick. OR Get a little somethin-somethin on the side. Whichever you choose.
2007-02-03 12:15:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋