Do you remember my last question? How I don't wanna have a baby but my boyfriend keeps having sex with me? Well, I thought of it while making out. (sorry) Why don't I break up with him?
Question #1- Should I break up with him?
Question #2- If I should break up with him, HOW? HELP!
2007-02-03 12:10:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ever heard of contraception and condoms? They give condoms out for FREE at the local high schools.
Why would you have to break up if you use contraception or condoms? Condoms are best because you cannot get pregnant or any diseases, and chances that a concom breaks are very slim....so no, don't break up, go buy some condoms
2007-02-03 12:15:54 · answer #1 · answered by rvrmldnd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Option #1 - Discreetly
Why not secretly do some research on some quick birth control methods. You must not take any chances right now. To me is he forcing you to get pregnent and wants to be a Daddy right away?
Make him use a condom
Option #2 - No Birth Control
Can lead to an unwanted pregnency, HIV - Aids etc
Option #3 - No Sex with boyfriend
If you all of sudden quit having sex can lead to rejected feelings by your boyfriend. Which will mean no boyfriend
Option #4 - See a Counsellor
Obviously you will need to sort your feelings out, a good Counsellor will not tell you what to do but will help you figure things out on your own
2007-02-03 20:28:10 · answer #2 · answered by Emily L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, i didn't read your last question but here's my answer
if you love him i don't think you should break up with him,
but "it take s two to tango" so you could always stop the sex.
Also you and your boyfriend could talk about how you do not want to have a baby (it did work with me and my boyfriend) and if he's not wearing protection now might be a good time to start, for both of you, go on the pill, becuase it does work 99% of the time and then a condom works 99% of the time, so you have a 2% chance of getting pregnant.
And if you do want to break up with him, let him down easy, but not with the cliche' line "let's still be friends" come up with something original, that suits your personality.
But overall i do not think you should break up, if you love him, i htink that you should just talk to him about it.
2007-02-03 20:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by shannymyhomeboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all, i'd like to open your eyes to a whole new world. it's called PROTECTION. also known as condoms and suchness. hell no you shouldn't break up with him you'll just either be alone and miserable or you'll find another man and he'll start having sex with you because it's what boyfriends do to you, otherwise they'd just be friends. GOSH. you're a little behind the times.
2007-02-03 20:17:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say your boyfriend keeps having sex with you. You say it like you're not even there. You keep having unprotected sex and you WILL get pregnant and ruin your life and your parents will never forgive you for making their lives more difficult. Get a backbone. Sounds like you let guys walk all over you. You give girls a bad name.
2007-02-03 20:18:16 · answer #5 · answered by Sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why to break up darling,, talk to him,, use protection,, there are many things u can do other than breaking up,, Don't u love him??!!
are you willing to let him go??!!
It depends on you darling,, u know better
and if you decided that you don't love him that much and u wanna break it off,, just tell him why,, the truth darling..
Good luck..
2007-02-03 20:15:08 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend should respect your decision for not wanting to have a baby. By him not doing so is only an indication of future problems to come. He obviously doesn't respect your opinion so dump him by simply saying "Goodbye."
2007-02-03 20:16:19 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he pressures you to have sex and you dont want to then yes break up with him.
tell him that youre not happy in the relationship and you think it would be best if you split. tell him that you just want to focus on school right now and that things just arnt working with having a boyfriend. appologize to him to make it look better and go your seperate ways. hope this helps but please dont do anything you dont want to do. take care.
2007-02-03 20:16:14 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♫§weetTart§amantha♫♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want a baby, stop having sex or start using protection. Duh! Once you stop having sex with him, he'll dump you and the problem is solved. No Baby.
2007-02-03 20:14:13 · answer #9 · answered by Deborah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋