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Real friends respect you and love you. They realize when your feelings are hurting and are there for you when you need them most. People that talk down on you and treat you like crap are not true friends. They probably have this false sense of superiority over you and by not standing up for yourself, you're letting them believe they are better than you. If you don't like confrontations or are too shy to talk back, which some people are and there's nothing wrong with that, then tell them that you're not getting the most out of this friendship. Let them know you don't feel respected and if they continue to treat you poorly, then just walk away. Trust me, there are better people out there that will reach out to you and whom you will be able to trust and rely on. It's better to be alone for a while rather than be with people that pull you down. I'm positive that you will find other friends right away, so don't worry about walking away from these people. You will feel better in the end and will gain a renewed sense of confidence and self-respect.
Hope this helps and that everything works out!

2007-02-03 12:24:18 · answer #1 · answered by amcstar 2 · 0 0

Friends that treat you like crap are not friends at all. Don't let yourself be a doormat. Give them all the flick and find some real friends. I'd rather be a bit lonely for a while and enjoy my own company until I find a new social circle than hang about with people who treated me badly.

2007-02-03 12:13:01 · answer #2 · answered by LadyRebecca 6 · 0 0

Let me point this out. THEY AREN'T YOUR FRIENDS! Sorry to say, but its happened to me b4. I'm not friends with that girl because of the way she treated me. The reason they are treating you that way and stepping on you like this is because you allow it. Now, I know you've probably heard this a million times, but you're gonna hear it the 1,000,001 time: ] there are many other fish in the sea. So go find different fishies and say buh bye to the others! So quit frowning and SMiLE. God loves you. Things'll clear up.

Good Luck!

2007-02-03 12:45:48 · answer #3 · answered by j♥ 2 · 0 0

If they treat you like crap they are not friends. Don't be scared to stand up for yourself. If you don't they'll keep treating you like crap. Go find yourself some real friends that will like you for who you are. Good luck!

2007-02-03 12:14:04 · answer #4 · answered by lov308 2 · 0 0

People treat you the way you allow them to treat you. Let 'em go away and find some new friends who respect you for who you are. Period.

2007-02-03 12:12:25 · answer #5 · answered by mJc 7 · 0 0

it is better to have no friends and not be treated like crap then to have them and be treated like crap. go and find some friends who won't treat you this way. you deserve better. hope this helps. good luck.

2007-02-03 12:19:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

First of all people treat you that way because you allow it. You just might be surprised at the results if you quit letting people walk all over you. Respect yourself and see if your life improves.

2007-02-03 12:19:14 · answer #7 · answered by Cinna 7 · 0 0

Let them go. Friends never treat friends like that. remember: don't do to others, what you don't want done to you! I would not be called them friends!

2007-02-03 12:15:44 · answer #8 · answered by pineapple 1 · 0 0

If your friends treat you like crap-then they are not friends to begin with! why are you so afraid of being by yourself? I bet you are beautiful and very strong. Why you need 'friends' like that?

2007-02-03 12:12:53 · answer #9 · answered by gr8mindsthnkalike2 1 · 1 0

the certainly dont sound like friends but that is u to your judgement... me personally I think you should tell them and if they go away well they were never really your freinds to begin with were they.

friends stick with you through thick and thin and are the ones that will tell you the truth no matter the cost to themselves, whats more they will tell you because they care.

2007-02-04 07:14:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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