im 33 weeks pregnant and have recently gotten heaps of strechmarks all over my body (i mean, EVERYWHERE), im young and thought that my boyfriend loved me and he s till says he does but he fell in love with me when i was skinny and i didnt have lines all over my body.
im really sensitive and i want to leave him because i dont feel he loves me anymore, even though he says he does.
is it wrond for me to feel so down and shitty that i want to be alone forever?
i love him so so much but i just feel as if i cant be loved back cause of the way i look...
2007-02-03 12:02:09 · 3 answers · asked by lifeless_reason 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sweetheart, you are feeling pretty darn pregnant right now and it will pass. We all get stretch marks. Your BF will continue to love you and when the baby is born you will get your body back. Be patient and soon it will all be over.
2007-02-03 12:24:59 · answer #1 · answered by mimegamy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This feeling you're having is just one of the effects of pregnancy. You will have many feelings of doubt and concern. As for your stretch marks you need to start using cream to prevent anymore from coming up. There are products at J C Penneys and places like that I heard work very well to reduce the signs of scares. Do you really want to throw away everything on unfounded feelings? Take it easy enjoy your pregnancy. Go out and buy yourself something pretty. In a week or so you'll be tearing your boyfriends clothes off trying to have sex with him all the time. Good luck !
2007-02-03 12:17:03 · answer #2 · answered by quel772o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, some people are going to get stretchmarks, some won't. There's no way to prevent them, wear them proudly as your proof that you have children!
You're being silly wanting to leave him over your stretchmarks. I know you're all stressed out, you feel horrible, you feel like you're going to be pregnant for the rest of your life right now, I know that. Been there, done that. Let me tell you right now that this too shall pass (no pun intended.) It's natural for you to feel so crappy right now, not wrong, just natural. Everyone goes through this, trust me. It's a combination of your hormones really kicking into high gear, starting to have sleeping issues (that's to get your body prepared for even more sleep deprivation), and those lovely Braxton Hicks contractions that if you haven't started having, you will soon.
Your boyfriend loves you for you, he knows your carrying his child right now, and he loves you for it. He sounds like a great guy. I hope you guys get married after you have the baby.
Don't worry so much, everything will be fine.
2007-02-03 12:50:59 · answer #3 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋