Okay, I have a boyfriend, and I like him. I'm 17. One day, we were into my house, studying, when he said, "I wan't to have sex with you, baby"
He took off his pants and took off my shirt and my bra and felt my butt.
Then we started making out like crazy and then he had sex with me and now im pregnant! I DON'T WANNA BE PREGNANT! HELP ME! My boyfriend is coming into my room already! NAKED!
2007-02-03 11:54:39 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
AT 17 you should know better. Tell your mother now.
2007-02-03 11:57:47 · answer #1 · answered by sticky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to believe you are serious since this is no joking matter. Tell your boyfriend, chances are he'll run for his life, call you all kinds of names and deny it's his. Good riddance. Then go to your Mom, Dad or trusted adult and TELL THEM. This is not something you want to face alone. A burden shared is a burden halved. Have a good cry and start thinking because you have some important decisions ahead of you. Are you going to have an abortion, keep the baby or give it up for adoption? I have had an abortion and do NOT reccomend it, it is very hard to get over if ever. If you keep the baby, how will you support it, where will you live and will you stay in school? The school part should be a no brainer since you should be close to graduation. I would suggest adoption (they have open adoptions where you can maintain contact and even choose who adopts the baby) or placing the baby in someone elses guardianship if you don't want to give it up completely. Don't forget child support!! You may have to do a paternity test but now its about the baby so get it the support it deserves. You are not the only person caught in this situation so don't feel sorry for yourself. It's not just about you anymore. I don't mean to sound callous, honey but the decision you make will be with you the rest of your life. Keep your chin up and I hope everything works out for the best!
2007-02-03 20:15:47 · answer #2 · answered by LadyLee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fear Not. You are going to be okay. My best advise is to go to a Crisis Pregnancy Center. They will give you great help. Just GOOGLE "Crisis Pregnancy". Consider this pregnancy a gift- life is such a gift from God. Many, many people want a child with all their hearts and are unable to conceive-maybe your baby would be the answer to someones prayer. Some people may try and tell you that there really isn't a life inside of you and that you have a choice to abort- and in America you do. But this life that is in you is a gift no matter how inconvienient or scary it might be. Treasure it as many women would give anything to be in your shoes. Last but not least, you need to tell your parents. They might be angry and sad, but they love you when it all comes down.
2007-02-03 20:05:28 · answer #3 · answered by Missy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All he is doing but useing you for sex because you is his little sex toy to him so you need to tell him that you are pregnant and go from there!
If he does not talk to you then make him pay child support when the baby comes but I think that you need to have the baby because you layed down and help make the baby and yall knew that without a condom that every gurl got bigger chance getting pregnant than thay do with a condom!
2007-02-04 18:57:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't listen to laura's advice, the baby wont die it will just feed off your body take all the nutrion out of your body for the baby to survive. I recommend you see a doctor about this. The doctor will be able to help you with any questions or concerns, he can talk to you about aborting the baby, or giving your baby up for adoption.
I think next time you do something like this you should think of the consquences and if you really are thinking of doing it again to use some protection. I recommend you use the pill if you try to have sexual intercourse again.
2007-02-03 20:02:47 · answer #5 · answered by drunken_monkey1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to see a doctor. Weather you plan to keep the baby or not. You can get more information to make the right choice for you. You also need to stop having unprotected sex. It's not safe. You need to get to a planned parenthood. Talk to one of the professionals there. They will help you. This is a choice you have to make with a clear head. Talk to one of the professionals at planned parenthood before you tell anyone else. This way you don't have your boyfriend's or parent's feelings clouding your choice. I wish you the best.
Stop having unprotected sex now!
2007-02-03 20:05:24 · answer #6 · answered by quel772o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, I got pg when I was 16 years old, and I didnt think I wanted a baby either, but I ened up having twins! That I love with all my heart and soul. U play U pay. But if your feelings dont change, give the baby up for adoption, there are plenty of people out there who cant have children
2007-02-03 19:58:52 · answer #7 · answered by me!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you tell him that your pregnant? You probably should if you haven't told him already. If you don't want the baby then get an abortion if thats something you don't mind. You need to learn to say no when you don't feel like having sex with him.
2007-02-03 19:58:45 · answer #8 · answered by Waythere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell your parents. I know it will be hard but they love you and they will help you through this no matter what you choose to do. You can't just wish a baby away. No matter how much you don't want to be pregnant, face it you are. It's only the end of the world if you treat it that way.
2007-02-03 20:00:48 · answer #9 · answered by Lin_Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
couple of problems if this is real:
1--"i like him" at your age and the bullets you're dodging (or not dodging) with unprotected sex it should be more than "like"
2--NO is still an answer that can be used
3--If you're still typing and he's already naked then he's definitely doing something wrong.
4--if you're really pregnant then grow up face your responsibilities b/c you have many decisions and many long days ahead of you
2007-02-03 20:06:42 · answer #10 · answered by mcneely96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you should make sure that you are pregnant if you have not already done that. Then you should let him know and possibly talk about it with him. Next time you should probably use a condom it might keep you from getting pregnant.
2007-02-03 20:00:51 · answer #11 · answered by Bookworm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋