Hi my name is Amy my heavy period caused by endometriosis.?

Question

I am 31 years old and I was raped by a stranger when I was 16. I am a spirit filled chrisitan. Do you think my periods are so painful and heavy because I was raped? How long does it take to be set free from painful memories and strongholds? My Mum is taking psychiatric medication because she is diaganosed with bipolar disorder. Is it possible that I can see my Mum for who she is and not as a zombie? I am finding it very hard to be strong. I find the traffic noise and people causes me fear? Can you suggest how I can rise above the noise and not be distracted by all the darkness.
Every time I hear a car beeping or a car screech. I look out the window and I am chased by devils. It is hard to remain calm.


Thank you Amy

Answer 1

Dear Amy... I'm so sorry to hear what happened to you. :( It must be really painful to go through the days like this. It is difficult to help over the internet. But whatever advice or suggestions that I give here, I hope that it will help, even if it's just a little bit.

Ok... let's address the issues one by one...

Firstly, the painful and heavy periods. Just a little misconception... endometriosis does not cause heavy period. It is actually the heavy period that causes endometriosis. Also, it is UNLIKELY that the painful and heavy period is caused by what happened to you when you were 16.

Painful periods are common. Even I have it somtimes! I need to ask you a few more questions to determine whether it is normal or abnormal type of pain.
1) How old were you when you started having the pain?
2) Which part of your period does that pain start? How many days before your period? On the 1st day? 2nd day?
3) Is the pain worst at the beginning or the end of your period?

If you started having the pain before you were about 25 years old, and it is starts about 24 hours before the period, and worst during the first 1-2 days... then there is absolutely nothing to worry about. 60-75% of young women experience such menstrual pain. You can help relieve it by painkillers like paracetamol.

If the pain only started when you were above 25 years old, it starts about 2 days before the period, and the pain increases in severity until late into your period, then takes 2 or more days to cease.... then you may have endometriosis or pelvic inflammatory disease.

My advice... if the pattern follows the 2nd one, then see a gynaecologist.

Secondly, your mother. Bipolar disorder is an illness, just like any other medical condition, eg diabetes, asthma. If you don't look at someone who has diabetes differently, then you shouldn't see your mother differently either. It is important that she eats her medication, like any other illness. However, she may not be in the right frame of mind at all times to remember to take her medication. And that is where you come in. I think your mother needs your help and support. I know you have your own problems... but sometimes, the best way to heal is to help others heal.

Thirdly, your self. Painful memories are certainly hard to let go. I probably will never understand the pain that you are experiencing now. But what I know is that you should NOT be carrying the burden all by yourself.

From what you have written, I think you many have anxiety and some depression. Many factors may have contributed to this, one of them being the past tragic experience, and another is probably your mom. My advice... get help! There is nothing wrong with seeing a psychiatrist. They have been trained to listen and help you overcome your troubles. They may give you some medication to eat... but do not be dependent on them!! You also have to develop ways to help yourself:

1) Go out with friends and enjoy yourself - you don't have to talk about your problems. You can talk about other stuff that you enjoy!
2) Occupy your time with things that you enjoy doing! Try not to allow time to stare into space. That's when you start thinking about things you shouldn't be thinking about.
3) Help others... and start with those around you. Really, from experience, this helps a lot.

I really hope you get over this, Amy. I wish you all the best in life. You are still 31 years old. You have plenty of time to rebuild your life. It is possible... People underestimate the human will. Remember someone out there (me!) believes you can do it. :)

Answer 2

Your menstation pains have little to do with the fact you were raped. You mentioned endrometriosis, this is the condition that causes you to have so much discomfort during your period.

You have asked many other questions here that unless anyone could examine you both physically and mentally would be difficult to answer in an informed manner. I suggest you speak with your own physician and outline the problems you speak of here and get a referral to the various areas of medicine that deal with these feelings you have.

Answer 3

Amy, being raped was not your fault. But from what you are saying, you are still a victim and not a survivor. There is lots and lots of work for you to do to change that. Start by calling any rape hot line.

Your periods are heavy and painful because they are heavy and painful. That's about your genes, not about the guilt that you should never have been allowed to feel in the first place.

Talk with your family doctor about your periods.

Answer 4

No. Your painful menstruation is not due to rape. Many factors affect the menstrual flow. You didn't say if your married or not, or probably sexually active. Prolonged, heavy and painful flow could mean something than just psychological. Please see a gyne for sure. Some reproductive disorders can cause the painful, heavy or prolong flow. It can also be endometriosis, it can be cervicitis, or bacterial vaginosis. One can never be too sure unless you see the doc. For your other questions, better get professional help. You really do need it. goodluck.

Answer 5

Wow, u need to fill an empty pepsi bottle with hot water and put on this sharp pain, also try magnets on the refrigerator. Try to drink some mild vinegar warm water . for IBS...the best thing is Karo Syrup 1tsp. at night. U too young to be in such emotional attitude. Take a PMS pill (pamprin). Sing to God and he will heal ya fast. noise, just play your radio and music will sooth ya.

Answer 6

You really need to read "Endometriosis Bible & Violet Protocol" by Zoe Brown (also available in electronic format here: http://www.endometriosisbible.info ). It's about how to eradicate endometriosis disease forever. It worked for me, you will see results in only a matter of weeks. Good Luck!