My girlfriend has decided to go back to her home country.?

Question

I love her so much and have tried to persuade her not to, but failed. She says she's not happy here and wants to go back. (Not because of me)

What do i do or say to get her to stay?, I really don't want her to go.

Answer 1

You probably won't be able to make her stay and probably shouldn't try to make her. Her life is her path and she has to do what she needs to do in this world. If you love her, let her go. You never know, she may come back. If you force her to stay, she will only resent you in the future. Love her and support her. It wasn't meant to be - things happen for a reason. I know it will hurt, but you will be fine and she will respect you!

Answer 2

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Here's the hard part: Pretend she never existed, like it was all a dream, don't call her, that will make you the smaller person, be the bigger person since you deserve better, what she did to you on Valentines Day was immature, especially after dating for four years. This person wasted allot of your time and through it out the window. Go out tonight, even it it is only yourself, don't drink and call or feel sorry for yourself, this will only cause you embarrassment! I know your hurting..This will eventually will go away in time. Today is not a good day for you and your emotions are spinning all over the place.

Please, whatever you do, don't answer her calls and don't call her. If she keeps calling, which she pro bally won't, don't return her call for 5 days. Make her sweat and DO Not get back together right away if you discuss this in 5 days. Tell her since she Broke up with you, you have done allot of thinking, and had the taste of "being single again" and you would like more time being "friends" for now, so you are sure you are making the right decision. Remember "She decided she didn't want to be with you" so the door is open for you to get out and see what you have been missing for four years. You honestly need to do this for yourself.

She doesn't know, but what she did was give you the best valentines day present you will ever get! A new start and a new beginning, use it to your advantage. You will look back on this and Thank God this happened now instead of 4 more wasted years of YOUR life. Today does suck, stay Strong and I promise you your life is going to be so much more exciting and you are going to be happy. If you continue to call and call her, she will think of you as needy and won't want you. She is going to rethink what she did to you today and will be hurt, if you act like you could care less. Girls always want the ones they can't have. That is who you are now to her. Let her suffer,realizing what a mistake she made. This will drive her crazy. Right now she is on cloud 9 thinking you will take her back, OH, is she stupid!

Your life isn't ruined, hers is..She lost someone special, and gave you a gift to let to live life and find someone you deserve. You are not getting back at her, your teaching her what an idiot she is and what she lost and what you gained without her. SO when You eventually talk to her, tell her thank you for what she did...
She will be hurt and you will be happy!

Answer 3

I fell in love with a women and we spent 3 years together electric moments that cant be explained and lovely holidays , I am 56 she is 60. Her grandchildren arrived so the draw to go home strong. When she first told me her daughter had become pregnant I expected her to go back at some point
It was very painful for both and we declared our love.I cried alone in a way I couldn't control
We keep in touch and after 18 months met again and enjoyed a wonderful holiday together.Sometimes only one great love comes in a life time this is mine, Impossible to be together, may be when we retire but love comes second sometimes a fact of life.

Answer 4

Love conquers everything...........or so it's said. How much do you love her??? However, family are family and the old saying 'Blood is thicker than water" is very true. Can you not go with her or have you the same family ties???? Then it is difficult.
Don't let people fool you. You can't always have love 100% plus. We are in the real world. She may love you more that any member of her family but add them all together and that's a different story. Time to sit down and talk of your relationship. If you are convinced she does love you PLEASE try and work something out. Your plight seems so genuine. I hope you will let me know how things work out? Incidentally I am almost 58 yrs and a mother, living in Scotland but your heart never grows old......remember that!

Answer 5

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Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.

The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.

Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.

Answer 6

You need to find out why she is unhappy. Perhaps she misses her family and is homesick. If this is the case, have you thought of and suggested going with her, or visiting her a few times and see if you think you could live there too?

Answer 7

you cant.if the girls not happy dont force her,that will make her more determined to go,act nonchalant like you dont care maybe she will have a change of heart,but have you though about going with her?if you love her as much as you say/

Answer 8

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Answer 9

I dont kno how old u r but if ur da age where u can go wit her (whereever shes goin)
then show her how much u luv her and make sure she trust u cuz if u dont hav trust den u dont hav anything

Answer 10

Marry her tell her you will love her forever and that you want to be with her for the rest of your life and only say it if you mean it..