Atleast for 10 min intervals... The situation is crazy but we cant be together thats all I'm gonna say. I can't get him off my mind and it really sucks. I have to work with him and see him and for some reason I can't ignore him tried that. I can't lose my job. I tried being with other ppl and I can't b/c all I do is think about him. Drinking only makes me miss him more.
2007-02-03 11:27:41 · 12 answers · asked by MSCLEN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The reason I have to talk to him at work is b/c he makes me smile and makes the day go by smoother...
2007-02-03 11:30:10 · update #1
Btw, Hes in a relationship and Im not going to come inbetween that...
2007-02-03 11:31:42 · update #2
love and heartache-they have existed as long as there have been men and women around to feel them. sorry to say, there is no magic formula. you cant 'will' it away. you cant "buy'it away and you cant pay anyone to take it away.but- you will eventually get over it. the romeo and juliet story rarely happens. most of us eventually find ourselves free of the spell. some tips that might help though-examine your life. if your life in general is not happy,and full of voids,then this person my have a hold on you for that reason, more than because of genuine love. they feel similar,and are not easy to tell apart.. nature hates a void, so you must fill any you have with constructive, self-impovement type activities. set small goals, and meet or exceed them. keep focused on the fact that you are the master of your own ship, and if you choose to get over this man, then you will,and you can.and dont be afraid of the pain. just remember that it will go away.you must feel like you are going foreward in your life. have something going on in your life that gives you feelings of satisfaction, and a sense that you are moving in a new direction. keep sight of the good, lovely,the kind, the beautiful things in life. best wishes
2007-02-03 12:07:43 · answer #1 · answered by DEBI M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a married man isn't he? If I liked someone and he had a girlfriend I would try for him.A married man is very much off limits.That peace of paper makes all the differences in the world.As a wife myself who has been cheated on I Hate the fact that Man and women work together.There would be no affairs to speak of if they would only stop this.90 % of all affairs start at the work place.Everyone is at their best and dressed nice smell good and pleasant. All the lunches and the happy hours and then the phone calls telling the wife not to wait up because you are having drinks with a client.It should be immediate dismissal if a married person has an affair or even a one timer with a co-worker.I no it won't stop but it might make someone think twice before doing something stupid like destroying everything they have work so hard for and for what just for a peace of a s s .
2007-02-03 13:08:49 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he already is in a realtionship then you dont need to be thinking or wanting to be with him anyway... You need counseling and help to get over him and get past this so you can move on with your life without this guy in it. This definitley is not worth losing your job over that is for sure. You may think about switching or finding a new job or working different hours then what he does. Do what you can to have less contact with this guy. Also try meeting new available guys and dating here and there this may help you forget this other guy too!
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2007-02-03 11:38:21 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been in a similar situation....having to see them everyday and talk to him everyday makes it harder....you need to move yourself away from him somehow....maybe your manager can put you in different areas where you won't see each other as much or not at all....you won't get over this anytime soon if you keep talking to him because he makes you smile...because obviously it also makes you sad....ignore him and talk about work only if you must talk at all....this is why i would never date someone at work...it causes problems if it doesnt work out....good luck and I hope I helped some...
2007-02-03 12:02:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well here is your choice forget him or you will loose your job , Then your in deep trouble. Not much of a choice to make . So stand up and move on .
2007-02-03 11:37:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn and musterbation. Seriously, it's the only healthy way to calm your libido down. If you DON'T want to have sex that is of course. Otherwise just hit a pub or something at night, drink a little, and I can guarantee you won't wake up alone.
2016-03-29 03:34:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am going through the same thing you are. i got involved with a coworker who has a g/f of 11 yrs and who has 5 kids. i cant stop thinking about him and it scares me to death. im only happy when i am with him and i cry when im not. so if you get a good anwer on how to get over him let me know =-)
i feel your pain........=-(
2007-02-03 13:49:04 · answer #7 · answered by britt12790@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try putting all of that energy you use for him, into someone else,otherwise you may turn into what he will refer to as a stalker, and you don't want to carry that title.
2007-02-03 11:31:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's married to someone else, hon, go find someone available.... your hormones are outta control...
.And if he isn't married, he sounds like he ain't interested... same advise, go fine someone available....
2007-02-03 11:38:22 · answer #9 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless he cheated on you, maybe u should give the relationship another try, sounds like u really love him.
2007-02-03 11:29:47 · answer #10 · answered by catinhat95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋