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I was just looking for some tips to get over the anixity.

2007-02-03 10:43:36 · 12 answers · asked by TOMI 1 in Health Men's Health

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<<>> dont remind me! I hated them too. I would run in and out as quick as I could.

2007-02-03 10:46:46 · answer #1 · answered by huggz 7 · 1 2

Hey buddy... it's ok to be afraid to take showers in school. Every boy has fears about being judged by the other boys-- especially in your early teenage years and everyone is starting puberty. Some of the guys will have pubic hair, some will not... some of the boys will be circumcised, some probably won't be... some of the guys might even pop a ***** when they get in the shower and see all the nakedness around them. It's ok. In all honesty, the way I got over it was I simply dropped my towel and walked to the shower-- I then sprung an erection and yelled over to my friend "Hey Mark, check this out"... he looked and I rocked my hips back and forth and made my penis swing side to side. I got everyone cracking up and it eased the tension in the shower. You'll be ok. If you have a close friend in yoru gym class, just try to hang around him in the shower so you're a *little* more comfortable. Good luck!! If you want to talk and I can give you more advice, my screen name is: goober1059 . Take care.

2007-02-03 11:02:40 · answer #2 · answered by Zachary 2 · 3 0

I also boycotted the shower business because I hated sports and pretty much refused to participate. You can do that, which really does create a lot of aggro with the school and your folks, or you can just grin and bear it. If you have a dad and a brother or two, you might want to talk to them about it Maybe you all can do a simulation (in your underwear) together.

Really if you're afraid that your penis isn't big enough, most guys are feeling the same way. Look at some of the questions on this site everyday.

Btw, in the military, they not only shower together, they use toilets together: the johns don't have privacy screens between them. I'd rather take a public shower than a public dump anyday. :O

2007-02-03 11:34:50 · answer #3 · answered by mabster60 4 · 0 2

Don't worry about. The more you worry the worse it will be. Many guys get erect or semi erect at the sight of another penis. It's natural.

Just keep your towel round your waist, shower quickly and get out. So what if you get an erection. You are a normal healthy male.

All your friends are probably worrying too. It's no big deal.

2007-02-03 22:58:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Are you afraid due to lack of privacy,or "germs" and the like ? The germ part is easy, keep a pair of shower shoes available,along with a anti-fungal foot powder and use it when your feet get dry etc. The other anxiety,perhaps talking with your friends etc,maybe they have the same . Take care. SW RNP

2007-02-03 10:52:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Just do it. Don't worry about what the other guys may say or do, just strip off and shower. They have the same equipment you do, perhaps you are not nude much. Lounge around bare butt whenever you can, so you can get used to being naked, don't wear jamies or underwear to bed, just go natural. The more you are comfortable with yourself being nude, the more you will be comfortable nude around other guys. Also--no queer guys are going to attack you-gays don't do that. If you are an average size guy, you will not have anything to worry about.

2007-02-03 14:45:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

I never had a problem with the school showers. Basically, I just stood their took my shower and that was it. Remember, everyone in the room has the same "fixtures" that you do, some are bigger, some are smaller, some are shaped different. Just don't worry about it.

2007-02-03 10:56:17 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0 1

Everybody feels goofy in the school shower. Others are likely as anxious as you. Wear some flip-flops to prevent sharing anyone's athlete's foot and don't worry about it.

All of us are naked under our clothes.

2007-02-03 11:18:38 · answer #8 · answered by steve.c_50 6 · 0 1

when u get naked wrap a towel around you until u hit the shower. when u shower look at the floor don/t kook around . some guy could think you/r interested/ alwats face the wall the whole time. take your time relax breath slowly.dry off get dressed and thanks for your question.

2007-02-03 23:20:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Allways remeber that every one else feels the same way. They just show it differently. After a few times it wont bother you any more.

2007-02-03 10:50:18 · answer #10 · answered by dragonsz7 5 · 0 1

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