bc i went through the same thing and now my friend is going through that and it doesnt make sense to me how you can be with some for along time , and they tell you they love you still and then a couple of days later say they dont anymore , it doesnt make sense bc i dont think you could fall out of love in just a couple of days and when you ask the guy they cant tell you . so thats why im asking you guys and females to please help me understand why ppl can say that and you know they do love you and then all of a sudden say they dont.
the thing is my friend and her ex been going out on and off for 8 years and shes says hes changed bc he use to go to church and know that and him not loving her seems really different for him(church) and also hes been in the army now for about 4 months and im wondering if that has to do with it also. bc she says he hangs aroung a guy whos a divorced and also ive been through that to where my husband had said the same thing while he was in ait and yes we al
2007-02-03 10:36:23 · 2 answers · asked by saturnlove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Nothing in life or love is guaranteed to last forever. Just as quickly as things are made in everday living the same things can be taken apart just as quick. Relationships may be made in heaven but theres n unwritten law that says how long they have to last. We take a chance in the game of love, not knowing if the person we fall in love with will love us back nor do we ever know just how many tomorrows will be there. Guys can fall out of love quicker than they can drink a can of beer especially if they werent really in love with that person to begin with. Guys dont like to make lifelong committments for the reason they like the ability to do or go with whatever life brings their way and yes, circumstances can and do change a mans desires. And its for this very reason thats its hard to believe that God was a man and made such a beautiful world. So sometimes in a relationship with a guy, expect the unexpected because what is there today may not be there tomorrow. This is also why guys cant really say that women are wishy-washy. Hope this makes sense
2007-02-03 11:01:13 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes men say things that they don't really mean...for sexual reasons. I suspect that this guy didn't really love this girl. Some boys/men say things to get in a girls pants. Even if it's a long time. It's a long time getting into a girls pants. So when they get tired of the girl....they go out and find another girl to say "I Love You" too.
"I Love You" are just words. Alot of us take to heart very easily. Actions speak louder than the words. Sure say I Love You...but if you really do. SHOW IT.
2007-02-03 10:55:07 · answer #2 · answered by camile j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋