why do some teenagers at the age of 14 get engaged too early in SEX?

Answer 1

Hormones. The age of consent is a social thing. Humans become sexually active at, or just after, puberty.

Answer 2

I think many teenagers have sex for the wrong reasons.

Personally speaking, I lost my virginity when I was 15, and I do not regret it because I am still with that guy, and we are in love. I know many people say you can't actually be in love with someone at this age, but yeah you can be depending on your maturity.

I've always been a very mature child, and I think that is what made my physically, emotionally and financially ready to handle what comes along with sex. I've always been safe about it (birth control and condoms) and I really think that sex should be something mutual between two people who love each other deeply.

For the people who do, do it without being ready its mostly because they let their hormones take over, and let peer pressure and curiosity get the best of them.

I think you shouldn't judge on age because it's really all about your maturity. I know people who are more mature than some 20 year olds at 15, and they should deserve the credit they are due for that.

That's just my view.

-Barbie.

Answer 3

I read one comment cause it feels good? How would you know if feels good? You have to do it first. And how can you miss something you've never had. The question is why the hurry. Cause you have nothing better to do???nothing better to do??are these guys and gals for real? Uh, there are lots of things a couple can, a good clean christian couple can do without rushing into sex..and this excuse to proove love to one another? Who is teaching you this crap. children that are sexually active this young need to see psyciatrists because there are hidden reasons why they feel "obligated". Number one reason...they were molested as children so it was taught that it was okay and it's not. Number 2: the parents aren't around and don't care enough to sit there and explain because they are probably just as irresponsible as the kids are...and can't be bothered..some girls at 13 and 14 don't even have their period yet...meaning....their bodies aren't ready yet. It's not cool and it doesn't make you popular...grow up first before doing something that may change your life forever...if you are to "randy" to keep it in your pants then insist the use of protection...just because your'e young doesn't make resistant to pregnancy, aids, stds...the list goes on....

Answer 4

First don't blame the SCHOOLS!

Such morals are established by the parents...or lack of such morals. Parents hold the responsibility to teach children right and wrong and to own up to responsibilities.
The teen holds the responsibility for making a good or bad choice in life. Their age-old reason..., "if anything bad happens, it won't happen to me.".

There are places where 11-12 y.o. girls are already engaged in sexual activity (even if Bill Clinton said it was not sex) so others will accept them as being sociable and include them in their groups/cliques. Pretty sad comment about our society and values.

Answer 5

well i dont think its a bad thing Im 14 and my gf is 13 and my gf is already giving me tugjobs so seriously its 4 the fling of it. Cause u spend the whole day doing work and when u get home its work so i u look for somthing a little out of the ordinary. U know like doing somthing stupid or gettin busy with ur GF.

PLZ DONT REPORT THIS ANSWER

Answer 6

Well i'd say it has a lot to do with peer pressure. At school, I hear girls talking about doing "it" with their bfs and boyz doin it with their gfs but most of it is actually lies. I guess just trying to fit in and also not understanding what sex is, and the consequences it brings. OR the fact that " Once it's gone you'll never get it back." (Lyfe Jennings song S.E.X.)

Answer 7

I think it can be for many different reasons, or a combonation of a few:

-Wanting to grow up to fast.
-Curiosity (remember kids, curiosity killed the cat)
-mistaking sex as proof of LOVE
-lack of a solid moral barometer
-lack of strong spiritual faith and guidance
-Parents who have never really discussed sex and the benefits of waiting (if not until you're married, until you're at least the age of consent)
-Parents who don't keep tight enough tabs on where their children are, who they're with, what they're doing (I realize that kids will be kids, and can often be mischeivious - but I also realize that many parents can be lax when it comes to this)

These are just a few I can think of off the top of my head. It's a real shame. They just absolutely do not understand the many consequences (aside from STDs/pregnancy) that having sex will bring.

Answer 8

Because at 14 you have ZERO delay gratification skills, you're about as selfish as you will ever be in your life and you haven't got enough life experience yet to benefit from soul crushing regret.

Patience notwithstanding, all of these things will come to you in time and you will find that sex is never worth the consequences that come with it.

Answer 9

Because they want to be grown. Kids these days are in such a hurry. And believe it or not I think some parents help it along by allowing them way too much lee-way.

Answer 10

Because they are insecure people. I have noticed that 14yr olds and even younger people who have sex come from homes where they are not paid much attention. So they realize that they have to look outside their home. When they find someone who makes them feel good sexually, emotionally etc they stay with that person because they keep needing to be loved and appreciated and recognized by that person.

Basically, I don't think they get enough attention at home with their families.