Meaning you've never been with the opposite sex. And obviosly this question is not for bisexuals.
2007-02-03 10:31:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
to yahoo answer rat...i'm a gold star?????
not gonna lie, i'm not.
2007-02-03 10:47:29 · update #1
Very few lesbians, actually. More gay men that I know are 'gold stars', I think. But then again, I tend to surround myself with open-minded people, I guess.
I'm bisexual, so the question doesn't apply, but I hate the term 'gold star'. It sets up a hierarchy of 'better' or 'best' gays and lesbians, as though someone who has slept with a member of the opposite sex is tainted somehow. There is no such thing- our sexual pasts are just that- part of us, integral, important, personal- but just because a lesbian hasn't been with a man doesn't mean she's somehow better than one who has. I just hate the concept, which makes the aforementioned women question their sexuality (again!), not want to divulge their pasts, and feel generally ashamed and worthless.
Sorry for the rant; I just really hate the term.
2007-02-03 20:32:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-03 18:34:07 · answer #2 · answered by Dr Universe 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Vanessa what is your point in asking this question? What do you seek to gain by it? Are you trying to validate something that you do in the solace that others are doing what you do?
Gold Stars? What is that code for sexual confusion?
2007-02-03 18:36:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I've never been with the opposite sex. I always knew I liked guys, so didn't bother trying to be with girls.
2007-02-03 18:39:48 · answer #4 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I have not, nor can I imagine in my wildest dreams (or nightmares) a reason to ever sleep with a woman. EVER. And I am 45 years old.
2007-02-03 19:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have one friend with cerebral palsy.
(does that count)
she is normal (above average IQ) mentally but her apperance has kept her from a traditional male female relationships! (does this count?)
If so, my count is ONE!
2007-02-03 18:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by kissmymiddlefinger 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cool... I just learned a new slang term!
2007-02-03 18:34:40 · answer #7 · answered by Somebody, somewhere 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good luck with that. We all experiment, what ever gender....
2007-02-03 18:34:38 · answer #8 · answered by crystal89431 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This Vanessa11 girl is one
2007-02-03 18:34:33 · answer #9 · answered by Yahoo Answer Rat 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
IM GLAD THAT I HAVE BEEN WITH THE OPOSITE SEX. HAVE
NT YOU? IF NOT, I WOULDNT TELL ANYBODY.
2007-02-03 18:54:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋