2007-02-03 10:11:48 · 11 answers · asked by luisa d 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
Spend the day/evening with friends and plan on how to dump such a lover!!!! Pray to St. Valentine for the courage.
2007-02-03 11:08:12 · answer #1 · answered by hbern 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to get someone who loves you for real and you need to stop messing with your "lover" because not only are you hurting yourself but you are hurting your "lover's" spouse. My advice stay away from people like that they all turn out to be big liers in the end trust me I know from experience. Pleas try to get out of a relationship like this, and if you can't get help, because you are worth way more than what this person is doing to you.
2007-02-03 18:52:54 · answer #2 · answered by Munky 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd suggest breaking up with your lover. That would be an excellent Valentine's gift to yourself. If he's cheating on his wife, then if he does leave her for you, what makes you think he won't do the same to you. I guess you could have a plant or something sent to his house.
2007-02-03 18:17:21 · answer #3 · answered by Purdey EP 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds like you are having an affair so to celebrate this day isn't any different than any other day that the 2 of you are slipping around
2007-02-03 18:36:26 · answer #4 · answered by mike mike 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are a woman: With a carton of Ben & Jerry's, secure in the knowledge that one day he really is going to leave her. Just sit back and quietly wait while your youth passes you by.
If you are a man: With a case of beer, secure in the knowledge that he is having sex with her at this VERY MINUTE! Visualize, cry, and repeat.
2007-02-03 18:16:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
by yourself you are anyway that man is not yours,probally never will be.my question for you is;WHY ARE YOU WASTING YOUR TIME?? you deserve better than that.volunteer at a childrens hospital for the day,visit an old folks home talk to them all get a new prespictive on your life,then GET A LIFE.,one free from guilt so you are free to love.
2007-02-03 18:22:33 · answer #6 · answered by peppersham 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get another man,that is single.
2007-02-03 18:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
obviously he doesnt love you more than the other person if he spends it with them and makes no effort to spend it with you
2007-02-03 18:19:54 · answer #8 · answered by Booth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your own man....celbrate by breaking up with him....
do you really think you dont deserve someone to yourself?
HA HA HA
2007-02-03 18:15:06 · answer #9 · answered by AA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him/her goodbye... and find someone who truly knows what commitment is all about... one person for one person... dump them and move on... there is someone out there JUST for you...
2007-02-03 19:49:42 · answer #10 · answered by livinintheword † 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋