I broke up with my boyfriend because I felt like I was causing him too much worry for me. I know that he feels like that because he cares but I don't want him to worry. And this one time he told me that he stayed up all night worrying and I didn't want that to happen anymore. We still love each other but I just feel like it would be easier to do things if I didn't have to feel like im always causeing someone grief. The only reason he agreed with me to break up is because he said he just wanted me to be happy. Well now im happy that he doesn't worry about me but whenever I see him I feel guilty as ever because he still loves me....what should I do?
2007-02-03 10:07:41 · 9 answers · asked by Kada 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Phone him up and say "Just kidding"
2007-02-03 10:11:09 · answer #1 · answered by steve 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You call him back and tell him how you feel. let him know that you Love him but the fact that he is always worring is a problem and that you need him to work on it. Someone that always worrys usually has a insecurity problem that will come out in the long run
2007-02-03 18:13:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it sounds like you two should be together and enjoy the time you have whether it be for a few weeks or 50 years.
it sounds to me like your having some difficulties you don't wish to discuss in an open forum like this that is causing your (ex) boyfriend to worry about you. rather than allow these issues to be worrisome to you both - seek help from a counselor or a therapist and be proactive in your own life. then, you and he can enjoy eachother.
good luck!
2007-02-03 18:17:06 · answer #3 · answered by annie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love means that you share emotions,worries, good and bad. Go talk to him and see what you can do to get him back. Enjoy your relationship and stop the worrying so much. Live you are young. Enjoy life and all that there is to it.
2007-02-03 18:13:52 · answer #4 · answered by DESTINY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel guilty.Give it some time to get over him. In time he'll stop worrying. this sounds like a normal progression of breaking up.Be good to yourself and soon you'll be fine.
2007-02-03 18:13:14 · answer #5 · answered by nancy e 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on fall inlove next time don't dwell on da past if u let him go then theres a reason there for yall not being together move on
2007-02-03 18:11:38 · answer #6 · answered by REESE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um why is he worrying over u? if he worries that u gonna cheat on him then it was best that yall break up becuz both yall dont need that stress.
2007-02-03 18:11:11 · answer #7 · answered by CaribbeanChica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in the same situation . just say sorry and say i still like u and then say dont say a word
2007-02-03 18:13:13 · answer #8 · answered by jackiefl01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel. and tell him not to because you will be fine and that he doesnt have to always worry about you.
2007-02-03 18:13:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋