Wide enough to ruin its elasticity for ever, indeed. Also, the entire perneum (between kitty and a-hole) can be torn open and requires cauterization, over weeks and weeks (even more painful than giving birth per se). Add to this the fact you sometimes throw up and defecate for hours, while giving birth....do you really want to ger pregnant?
2007-02-03 09:55:44 · 45 answers · asked by rage997_666 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I know you purposely asked a question like this to wind people up while, you sit back and laugh you **** off. Has anyone even let you near their *kitty*? I have the feeling that the answer is no . Everyone..I suspect with a question like this..this one is a virgin:P
2007-02-03 14:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by Shelley B 1 · 4⤊ 3⤋
First of all, not every woman tears when they give birth vaginally. There are many steps that you can take to prevent tearing of the vagina and perenium. The vagina is designed to stretch to fit the baby's head, then return to it's normal size, which it does within a few weeks.
Some women also opt for elective C-sections for this very reason. I think it's foolish to undergo unnecessary surgery so you don't "ruin" your vagina, but if that's what you want to do, fine by me.
Also, giving birth is an experience that cannot be explained to someone who will never be able to go through it. Same with motherhood. You can't describe it to someone who has never been there, or will never be. Being a mother is more amazing and wonderful than any amount of vomitting, defecation, labor, tearing, pushing, and pain that I will ever experience.
2007-02-03 10:06:47 · answer #2 · answered by Smurfy Keeps Going and Going 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We are designed to give birth and u dont tear like that very often, we do it because we want to have children, and the pain of giving birth or the pain of the after care of a c-section is worth it to have ur baby.
We are strong!! its the reason why men just have to produce the semen and hold ur hand, they couldnt cope with the pain.
2007-02-03 10:14:04 · answer #3 · answered by Smiley_1714 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Number one....I have already had my two and not having anymore.
Number Two....All the pain, throwing up, and etc. was WORTH IT!
Number Three..... You can't expect everything to be perfectly good, or great for a person. everything you go do, or say will have an miserable effects. everything can't be painless, or happiness. there is always something behind everything. Which it's called LIFE my friend. That's why most of the time people always say to look at the Brighter side to everything, because you will always have those lumps or bumps in your lifeline road.
2007-02-03 10:07:37 · answer #4 · answered by Nascar Momma 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It's all worth it in the end because you have a beautiful child to love and nurture afterwards. Besides, how else would the world continue to evolve if every woman was afraid of childbirth and it's effects on her body? Are you saying you wish you weren't born because of what it did to your mom's body? Over time and with exercise the woman's body can go back to "normal", she just has to want it bad enough. Also, she can avoid vaginal tearing and other negative aspects by exercising during pregnancy and eating healthy.
Not every woman's body goes to hell after having children. I have two and my body is better now than it was before I got pregnant the first time, and I was lifting weights more then than I am now!!!!!
2007-02-03 10:07:24 · answer #5 · answered by gorf79 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hmmm....good question....My first one was an unplanned c-section and my second one is going to be a scheduled c-section in April. My "kitty" as you put it, is still intact. In fact, my sister told me that everything got stretched after she had her 2 kids, which is why I opted for the c-section instead. Now as for the second part of your question. Babies are beautiful. You have this little person growing inside you for 9 months that you finially get to meet, and love with all your heart. Of course we all want to do it again. Children are your very heart walking around outside your body.
2007-02-03 10:16:40 · answer #6 · answered by angie 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you had a child and had been through the whole experience and realize how much you gain in exchange for what you loose and the pain you would realize it is all worth it. My son is the best thing to ever happen to me. When he calls for me, when he puts a puzzle together, when he learns something new, when he gets excited over a new taste all of these things and millions more make every little bit of child birth and the whole process a miracle.
2007-02-03 10:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Because in the end you get this beautiful child that you love and loves you back! It's all worth it!
And not everyone one goes through the things that you described.
This is why women have the children because if it was up to men ( who couldn't handle the pain) the population would die out!
2007-02-03 10:05:00 · answer #8 · answered by Jojo 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
WHY are blokes so keen to have their wicked way in the first place, then we would'nt get pregnant .... GET THAT. I'd love to see a bloke give birth, they think they're dying when they got a cold.
2007-02-03 10:08:17 · answer #9 · answered by Jeanette 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thats the reason why women give birth to children and the men just watch!!!
2007-02-03 10:05:42 · answer #10 · answered by bexbickles 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋